Find True Love Online

The Intelligent, Compassionate Learning Community

For Lesbians Who Value Conscious Love!

Join us for your Summer of Love!

Find True Love Online!

An Intensive Class for Women Who Love Women

Is Find True Love Online Right For You?

You're smart, thoughtful, conscious, spiritually-oriented, and have high standards, so you wonder whether you could actually meet your match on a dating site, but you don't know how else to find her.
You've put off online dating because you're just not sure how to do it -- which apps to use, what to say in your profile, how to reach out, how to protect yourself from people who misrepresent themselves, and how to keep your heart safe.
Or you're already online, but it's not working for you. You spend too much time swiping, don't see many women who meet your criteria, and often don't hear back from the few women who do.
You've had painful relationships in the past, so you're wary about dating. You wonder if you can really trust yourself to know who's right for you. Chemistry matters, but you also don't want to get fooled by it.
You feel too old to waste your time, but too young to live the rest of your life alone. A little voice inside you sometimes says, Who am I kidding? There's no one out there for me.
You wonder if it even makes sense to look for love again. You've got a pretty good life being single, so shouldn't that just be enough? Yet your heart won't let you give up.

You are not alone!

Here's the truth.

Love really is what makes most people happiest, when it's healthy and good. Your heart is right not to let go. And there is someone out there for you. But pain from the past, old stories in your head, and pandemic isolation make it hard to keep your heart both open and discerning.

Many women on the apps aren't ready for a relationship, or aren't honest. Armed with the knowledge and clarity you'll get in Find True Love Online, you'll be able to quickly spot and rule those people out, and find available, authentic women.

Online dating sites and apps want you to just keep swiping forever, so you'll keep paying them.

The Find True Love Online class will teach you how to make the dating sites and apps work for you rather than against you, so you can find real connection.

When you know how to do online dating right, it makes a world of difference. The Find True Love Online class will help you feel confident, sure about what you seek and what you offer, and able to trust yourself and love.

Find True Love Online gives you the guidance and skills you need,

so you can find the deep true love you really want.

Starting this Autumn!

0

DAYS

0

HOURS

0

MINUTES

0

SECONDS

Imagine being able to:

Feel supported by a group of like-minded, growth-oriented lesbians and queer women who hold you accountable, cheer you on, and keep you motivated in taking the steps to find your true love.

Create an online profile that accurately, specifically and powerfully describes who you are, what you seek and what you offer, so the right woman will recognize you.
Feel strong, confident and comfortable venturing into online dating, because you know how to do it right.
Know which dating site(s) and app(s) make sense for your specific needs, and exactly how to use them -- so you can stop wasting time, steer clear of women who aren't safe for your heart, and find real love.
Have a clear map of "best practices" to follow, including how to reach out, how long to message before meeting, what to do and not do on your first few dates, how to handle long-distance dating, how to respond to red flags, and more.
Understand how healthy attraction and long-term compatibility truly work, so you can recognize the partner who is actually right for you.
Engage with online dating as an honorable part of your growth path -- a way for you to not only find love, but be love.

You deserve the relationship of your dreams.

We'll help you get there.

Find True Love Online is part of the Conscious Girlfriend Academy, the #1 global resource helping lesbians and queer women find love and keep it strong.

Since 2014, women from 25 countries have taken our classes!

We wrote the book on Conscious Lesbian Dating & Love.

The Find True Love Online Intensive:

Your Path To The Woman Who Is Truly Right For You

"Believe it or not, finding true love online can be one of the most rewarding processes

you will ever engage in. You'll be supported in mind, heart, body and soul so you can find the partner your whole self wants." -- Conscious Girlfriend Director Ruth L. Schwartz, Ph.D.

The Find True Love Online Intensive Will Teach You To:

Make use of the incredible resource of online dating sites and apps, while avoiding their pitfalls.

Online dating sites are the universe's gift to the lesbian and queer women's community! As a minority sexual community, it is unbelievably valuable to have this way to find one another. But if you don't know how to use them right, they can also be a huge waste of time and energy and leave you lonely and frustrated. Learn how to use them right.
Create an accurate, specific and inviting online profile that quickly attracts the right woman.

When your dream woman is scrolling through profiles, she's overwhelmed by all the hundreds of women, just as you are. Having a profile that really speaks to her is absolutely essential, so you'll get her attention and make her excited to reach out to you.
Quickly weed out women who aren't right for you, and avoiding getting hooked.

Let's face it, there are many Ms. Wrongs out there, and some of them are very attractive -- but following your attraction to them leads to heartbreak. This class will teach you to recognize Wise vs. Unwise Attractions and say Yes only to the wise ones, so you can find the love you want and deserve.

And the Find True Love Online Intensive Will Also Help You:
Recognize and release your blocks to love.

If you've been single for over a year despite wanting a partner -- or if you keep diving into relationships with women who just aren't right -- you probably have blocks that are getting in your way. This class will teach you how to compassionately recognize them and skillfully transform them, so you can move forward to true love.
Cultivate a heart that is both open and discerning.

Let's face it, lesbian dating is filled with walking wounded, because our relationships go so deep -- and so do our breakups. If you're dating with a closed heart, you're adding to the collateral damage. But if you're dating without discernment, you'll sustain more damage of your own. Your heart, and other women's hearts, are worth better than that. This class will teach you how to move from your heart in ways that truly serve your well-being.
Develop a clear, powerful vision of the relationship you want, so you can call it in.

Most women look for love and partnership with much less clarity than we use when shopping for toaster ovens, despite the fact that relationships are both infinitely more important, and more complex. This class will teach you how to focus in on what you most need and want, and how to claim it, so it can actually come to you.

The Nitty-Gritty: What You'll Actually Get In The Find True Love Online Intensive
Direct support from Conscious Girlfriend Academy Director Ruth L. Schwartz, Ph.D. in twelve live two-hour classes (all recorded, of course, so it's okay if you have to miss some.)

Future versions of Find True Love Online will make more extensive use of audio recordings, and will include many fewer live classes. So if you want lots of live support, the time to sign up is now!
Extensive, comprehensive worksheets that support your self-inquiry and transformation on your own time.

If you've been single for over a year despite wanting a partner -- or if you keep diving into relationships with women who just aren't right, you probably have blocks that are getting in your way. This class will teach you how to compassionately recognize them and skillfully transform them, so you can move forward to true love.
Warm-hearted community support from growth-oriented lesbians and queer women on the same journey.

Research shows that efforts at transformation are dramatically more likely to succeed when you have accountability partners who can keep you honest, keep you focused, and cheer you on! You'll be matched with buddies and also have access to our private Facebook page just for this course.

A message from Academy Director

Ruth L. Schwartz, Ph.D.

Romantic love has always felt like one of the very most important parts of my life, and these words by the brilliant Black feminist writer bell hooks explain why.

When angels speak of love they tell us it is only by loving that we enter an earthly paradise. They tell us paradise is our home and love our true destiny… It is the most militant, most radical intervention anyone can make to not only speak of love, but to engage in the practice of love.

Love heals. No matter what has happened in your past, when you open your heart to love, you can live as if born again, not forgetting the past but seeing it in a new way, letting it live inside you in a new way… This is the way healing happens.

-- bell hooks, from All About Love

Although I have many professional credentials (read more here), including a Ph.D. in Transpersonal Psychology, certification as a Somatica Sex & Intimacy Coach, coach training with Gay and Katie Hendricks, authors of Conscious Loving, and teaching thousands of Conscious Girlfriend students worldwide since 2014, my work is also my life, and my life is my work. I've taught at eight universities, but I've been schooled by loving women. I've been out since 1982, and my intimate relationships have been my deepest source of beauty, heartbreak, challenge, learning and joy on this earth.

I developed Find True Love Online out of my great joy at having found my own true love online: a woman so right for me that if I hadn't already believed in magic, I would have to start now! (And the night I messaged her was her very first night on Match, so she had worked some serious magic of her own...) I created this class to give more women access to the tools for creating that love magic.

In the future, I plan to offer a recorded version of the class, with less live support. So if you want the maximum amount of live support, now is the time to sign up.

At $597, the class is a significant investment, but I believe it's a bargain for what you will receive. I no longer work with 1:1 clients, but at my old rate, your cost for 24 private hours with me would have been $3600. And though private work can be helpful, you'll actually receive much more value from this class than you would if we worked together 1:1, because the group support, camaraderie, accountability, and 'side-door coaching' -- the learning from hearing me respond to other people -- are even more powerful.

So if you're ready to find true love in 2022, or ready to get ready, this class is for you. Your investment is just $597 if you sign up by January 2, 2022. And if you're highly motivated but need a partial scholarship or payment plan to make it doable for you, email me at ruth@consciousgirlfriend.com. I support our community.

XXOO

Ruth

Starting this Autumn!

0

DAYS

0

HOURS

0

MINUTES

0

SECONDS

Meet Conscious Girlfriend Participants Who Found True Love Online!

Eva & Carol, 66 & 71

Eva was 64 and had been single for a very long time. Conscious Girlfriend helped her develop the resilience to become ready to date, and the courage to put up an online profile. Dating was awkward at first, but after a few months, she met Carol, and they clicked. "I credit Conscious Girlfriend with getting me ready to meet this wonderful woman," Eva says. "We've been going strong for two years now!"

Caroline, 68

Caroline says, "I was already using online dating before working with Conscious Girlfriend. In fact, I was exhausted from over 25 first dates hadn't led anywhere. You helped me see what I was doing wrong, and a few months after finishing the course, I met someone who lived several hours from me. We dated long distance for a year and a half, and then joined households. Now, a year later, we still pinch ourselves about how well-matched we are."

Denise, 51

Denise had recently come out after a long marriage to a man, and had two teenaged kids at home. She was afraid these facts would scare women away, but Conscious Girlfriend helped her believe in her worthiness as a partner. She put up a highly specific profile and found lasting love within two months! That was five years ago, and Denise now says, "Without your course, I couldn't have done it. Now I have a partner who loves my kids as much as she loves me, and I'm the happiest I've ever been."

FAQs

Answers To Common Questions About Conscious Girlfriend's Find True Love Online

How old are most class participants?

Conscious Girlfriend class participants have ranged in age from 21 to 82. Our largest number of participants tend to be in their 50s, 60s and 70s. It is never too late, or too early, for healthy love.
What if I'm not sure I'm ready for a relationship?

It's wise not to date before you're ready. The Find True Love Online class can help you see what you need to do to get ready, and make profound shifts toward what you want next in love.
What if I want a non-traditional relationship?

The Find True Love Online class will help you clearly define exactly what you want and need in true love, and stand strong in your vision. Whatever that vision is, you will be warmly supported!
How much time will the class take?

You can pace your own experience, since all of the live classes are recorded and the other materials are yours to use at any time. That said, if you're ready to find your true love, we recommend you allocate at least four hours per week to the process. It's the best investment in your happiness you can possibly make.

What if I've never had a relationship with a woman?

If you are a self-identified woman who loves women, or wants to, you are welcome! Classes include lifelong lesbians, women who are just coming out, and non-binary folx comfortable with lesbian culture, too.
What if I want to find true love, but not online?

These days the vast majority of new lesbian couples meet online, so we'd hate to see you rule out that possibility. However, much of the coursework in Find True Love Online will support you even if you're committed to meeting someone offline.
What if online dating hasn't worked for me before?

The Find True Love Online class offers a proven method to help you skillfully navigate both the dating sites/apps, and your own heart and attractions. It's a very different experience than DIY trial and error, and will get you different results.
Do you offer a money-back guarantee?

While we can't guarantee you a girlfriend, we can guarantee that if you attend the classes and do the work, your love life will change. If you faithfully work the process, but feel after 12 weeks that you didn't get your money's worth, we'll happily refund it.

FTLO class will start this Autumn!

Hear From Conscious Girlfriend

Course Participants In Their Own Words

Jordan, age 62

"After working with you in class last night, starting to craft my online dating profile, I woke up this morning with a sense of joy & hopefulness.Thank you for your wisdom, insights, recommendations, encouragement & skill. It’s a wonderful feeling: to have hope restored."

Luisa & Cindy

"I went from having no idea how to find a partner, and really not even believing I could, to finding someone who feels so incredibly right for me. My whole life has changed. And the scary thing is, without your course, I think I would never have found her. Having your support made all the difference in the world."

Nadine, age 74

"My friends told me I was too old, and I've been telling myself the same thing. But your course made me realize there are other women in my age group who, like me, are still open to love. Now I really believe that I can have another great love in my life. I feel a spark in my heart, and I know how to find her."

FTLO class will start this Autumn!

Conscious Girlfriend Has Been Featured On:

Get Our Free E-book, Five Heartbreaking Mistakes Lesbians Make , And What To Do Instead!

I would like to receive future communications

I agree to the GDPR Terms & Conditions

About Us Contact Us Privacy Policy