We're Your Path To
Happy, Healthy, Drama-Free Lesbian Or Queer Love
& Community
Our Book Has Changed
Lesbian/Queer Lives
In 25 Countries
Welcome To The Conscious Girlfriend Academy
We're the global leader helping lesbians, queer women and adjacent non-binary people prevent heartbreak, date wisely, and love well (we literally wrote the book on it :) Based in the U.S., we serve people in 25 countries, ages 20s-80s.
Whether you've been out for decades or are just coming out, if you're a person who wants to grow, and you'd like tools to make your dating, love and sex life happier... Here, you belong.
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Coming Out?
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Struggling With Dating Or Communicating?
Meet Like-Minded Women Ages 60-80+
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Are You Facing Any of These Challenges?
We Get It -- We've Been There!
Not Sure Where To Start?
Get a 1:1 with our outreach director, Jen Solin, to learn more about learn how the Academy can support your lesbian or queer heart.
YOUR QUICK GUIDE TO
The Conscious Girlfriend Academy
Global Leader In Lesbian Dating and Relationship Education, Support and Community
You could think of us as a "Lesbian Love University" with the curriculum you've been needing for a lifetime. Many women say, "I wish I'd found you decades ago!" (But it's never too late.)
Our classes and deep-dive group coaching have helped hundreds of women put their lives and hearts back together after shattering breakups.
Here, women loving women can learn or re-learn lesbian dating skills at any age, so you can date with clarity, confidence and success.
You can learn to solve painful lesbian relationship problems, stop fighting, or even get back together with your ex and create a happy, healthy new lesbian love story, using the unique, neuroscience-based lesbian relationship tools we offer.
Empowering Lesbians and Queer People to Build Conscious, Healthy Love
Here, you'll learn how to heal toxic lesbian relationship patterns, improve your lesbian relationship communication, and create more sustainable, drama-free, lasting lesbian love.
Whether you're recovering from a painful lesbian breakup, new to lesbian dating, or seeking deeper connection in your current queer relationship, Conscious Girlfriend Academy can help.
Why Conscious Girlfriend Academy?
✔ Trusted by thousands of lesbians, queer women and non-binary people
✔ Trauma-informed, neuroscience-based, attachment theory-savvy, and based on decades of lived lesbian and queer experience
✔ World-class LGBTQ teachers, and coaches trained in the world's only coach training specifically designed to support lesbians and queer people with dating and love
✔ Safe, private online environment for growth and connection
Start Your Journey Toward A Conscious, Loving Lesbian Relationship
If you're ready to break free from old patterns and create lesbian love that truly lasts, join Conscious Girlfriend Academy today. Our proven approach to lesbian dating support, lesbian relationship help, and personal transformation is here to guide you.
Learn how to fix your picker, master the skills of conscious lesbian dating, and find happy, healthy lesbian love at any age.
Join a warm-hearted, growth-oriented group of lesbians and adjacent queer people who may become your chosen family... from all over the U.S., Canada and 23 other countries.
We Are Your Complete Support System
Life-Changing Live Classes
Open-Hearted Community
On-Demand Library of Skill-Building Classes
Free Resources
How Does The Academy Help?
Hear From People Like You
"CGA has changed my life... After my last breakup, I was left with so many questions. I'm so grateful I found this community. I've never felt so seen."
"I never thought I would date online, but I learned how, and that's how I met my partner."
"I had been looking for a long time for a community of thoughtful single queer women, and I found that here... and then I met someone amazing!"
"I've been through a lot of relationship training, but CGA was my best investment ever."
"I'm really grateful because I was at a low point, and CGA gave me quality community working toward what I'm working toward, a place I can grow."
"I was amazed at the low prices... I think it's just the most amazing deal ever, for what you get."
Meet Our Director
Ruth L. Schwartz, Ph.D.
Dr. Ruth Schwartz, author of the Amazon-bestselling book Conscious Lesbian Dating & Love, is a pioneer in lesbian and queer relationship education.
After coming out in the 1980s, Ruth had to learn everything the hard way. There was no healthy dating or relationship roadmap for women who loved women... so, after decades of struggle, she created one.
Incorporating neuroscience, attachment theory, psychology and lesbian culture, Ruth designed the transformational path our community desperately needs, and hasn't had until now.
Rated 4.5 stars from 200+ reviews
The Book That's Changing Lives...
... and the roadmap to finding the love you want.
Not Sure Where To Start?
"I'm Jen, and I remember how I felt when I stumbled into the Academy several years ago, my heart crushed by a series of painful relationships. I can't even begin to tell you how much my life has changed since then! I'd love to help you get the help you need."
