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Intensives


These intensive courses were all recorded live with Conscious Girlfriend Academy participants over the last few years. Obviously, the advantage of an on-demand class is that you can watch or listen any time. 

Lesbian Dating Boot Camp 

12 Recorded Classes + 12 Weeks Of Worksheets

Intensive training to get you ready for skillful, smart-for-your-heart lesbian dating, even if you've never dated, or never dated women, before! Build your resilience, clarify your vision, practice key conversations, recognize red flags, get clear on what you offer and seek, create an authentic and inviting online profile, and learn to listen to all parts of yourself, including your inner wisdom, to keep you on track.

Buy A La Carte For $697

Or Get The Lesbian Dating Boot Camp Course Recordings FREE With Membership 

Get Your Life Back After A Toxic Lesbian Relationship

Seven 2+ Hour Modules

It's ironic, but sometimes the more pain there was, the harder it can feel to let go. You might get stuck endlessly replaying conversations in your head, wondering what you could have done differently, or wanting her back even when you know she was bad for you.

 

This course is the alternative: your path to getting free and getting your life back. 

Buy Now For $497

The Get Your Life Back On-Demand Course Is Included FREE With Membership 

Find True Love Online

Twelve-Module Series

This in-depth course not only prepares you for successful online dating (developing your vision, writing your profile, messaging strategy, staying safe, which apps to use), but also offers comprehensive preparation for healthy love.

Buy A La Carte For $597

The Find True Love Online On-Demand Course Is Included FREE With Membership 

Lesbian Attachment Healing Intensive

Four Modules + Worksheets + Handouts

One of our most impactful courses ever! Learn why so much of what goes wrong in relationships can be traced back to colliding attachment states, and how to navigate those states skillfully. You'll learn how to bring empathy and curiosity to your most painful triggers, and save any relationship worth saving. 

Buy Now For $199

Or Get The Lesbian Attachment Healing Recordings Included FREE With Membership 

Coming Out & Coming Home

Six 2-Hour Modules

Coming out is always a journey, but coming out later in life can be even more challenging. This class takes the aloneness away!

 

You'll learn how to better understand your sexual and romantic orientation, navigate coming out conversations, better understand lesbian culture and community, and gain more ease and savvy with lesbian lesbian dating and sex.

Welcome home!

Buy Now For $349

Or Get The Coming Out & Coming Home Recordings Included FREE With Membership 

The Roadmap To Conscious Lesbian + Queer Dating & Lasting Love 

Twelve-Module Series

We've been offering this course based on our bestselling book for 10 years now, and it goes deeper each time. It's best to come live if you can (it runs from January-April each year), but the recordings and worksheets alone have brought powerful results for many participants.

Buy A La Carte For $597

The Roadmap On-Demand Course Is Included FREE With Membership 

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More On-Demand Intensives

Included Free With Academy Membership

Lesbian Heartbreak Healing 

Four Module Class

Lesbian breakups can be among the most painful experiences on the planet. Learn how to finally understand what happened, forgive yourself, harvest the learning and gifts for you in this loss, and let go so you can reclaim your life. 

Buy Now For $299

Or Get The Heartbreak Healing Series Included Free With Membership

Lesbian Communication for Emotional Intimacy

Three Module Class

Communication gets hardest when it matters most. Learn how to create closeness, not conflict, through communication. 

Buy Now For $199

Or Get The Communication Series Free With Membership 

Lesbian Dating & Love Over 60+

Four Module Class

Lesbians over 60 are better prepared than ever to have the best relationships of our lives -- but there are some barriers that stop us. This class breaks down those barriers to build your confidence, get you ready, and help you find her. 

Buy Now For $199

Or Get The Dating & Love Over 60 Course Free With Membership

Lesbian Erotic Liberation Class

Six-Module Class

This 6-week transformational experience included: reclaiming our erotic selves from trauma and overcoming internalized homophobia... understanding our erotic psyches...embracing our unique bodies, genders and turn-ons... communicating our desires... understanding all kinds of orgasms, and how much orgasm matters... and how to navigate common challenges like body shame, aging and changing bodies, differing libidos, and trauma triggers.

Truly liberatory!  

Buy Now For $297

The Lesbian Erotic Liberation Intensive Series is  included FREE with Membership. 

Lesbian Bed Life Bundle

Twelve 90-minute Classes

Get 12 individual 90-minute classes organized by topic. Who needs Netflix, when you could be watching frank, compassionate and empowering clothes-on classes about lesbian oral sex, the female sexual anatomy of pleasure, conscious queer sexuality and kink, lesbian/queer gender, understanding and embracing your unique erotic psyche, and more... 

Buy Now For $249

The Lesbian/Queer Bed Life Bundle classes are included FREE with Deep Dive Membership. 

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The following topical classes are not available a la carte,

but are free to Academy members. 

Lesbian Dating Series

Dating: Red, Green

and Yellow Flags

  • Learn why sometimes a red flag can turn yellow or even green -- but sometimes a green flag can change color, too.   

  • Gain the clarity to listen to your intuition, assess someone new, and also stay curious and open. 

90-Minute Video Class - Yours Free With Academy Membership

Lesbian Dating

Deep Dive

  • How to know if you're actually ready to date, and what to do if you're not -- or if she's not.

  • Learn how to build a solid foundation whether you're local or long-distance, and what "friends first" and compatibility really mean.

  • And, just for fun, learn how to flirt, too...without committing!  

90-Minute Video Class - Yours Free With Academy Membership

Wise Lesbian Dating Fundamentals

  • You've been around the block and you're ready to learn to do this thing differently -- but where do you begin? What does it even mean to "date," vs. just dive in?

  • Learn what to do when you feel a spark, and also when you don't, so you can actually find long-term love.

90-Minute Video Class - Free To Academy Members

Releasing Blocks

to Love

  • Why sometimes that 67-point checklist actually keeps you from love -- and how to focus on what really matters in seeking a partner. 

  • Learn how to become someone who actually finds love, rather than keeps on looking.  

90-Minute Video Class - Yours Free With Academy Membership

Conscious Connection & Dating

  • Learn how to make every date a good date while also dating with a clear vision -- and learn when and how to discuss that vision without scaring someone off. 

  • Strengthen your ability to be yourself on dates, while also gaining key information about compatibility.

90-Minute Video Class - Free With Academy Membership

Anatomy of A Lesbian Heartbreak

  • The truth about why so many relationships start out amazing, yet fall apart in less than a year -- and how to prevent this heartbreak. 

  • Learn how to stop getting derailed by a sense of scarcity, or attractions to women who aren't good for you. 

90-Minute Video Class - Free With Academy Membership

True Compatibility

  • Compatibility is key to a long-term relationship, but it's not intuitive. Learn the most  important factor (which probably isn't even on your radar!)

  • Do you ever want different, contradictory things? Learn how to become more compatible with yourself, so you can find a love that works for the complex being you are.

90-Minute Video Class - Free With Academy Membership

Preparing For A Healthy Relationship

  • Are you stuck in old stories or unrealistic fantasies about love? Learn how to create a nuanced and updated vision for the relationship you want. 

  • Build the skills and develop the mindset for a happy, lasting intimate relationship -- before you find her!

90-Minute Video Class - Free With Academy Membership

Rewrite Your

Relationship Scripts

  • Do you have painful patterns you replay again and again, like trying to "rescue" women who need help, falling for unavailable women, or over-giving and then feeling resentful?

  • Learn what it really takes to transform these dysfunctional "scripts," and create the new reality you truly want.  

90-Minute Video Class - Free With Academy Membership

Sign Up For Academy Membership & Get All These Classes Free

Emotional Literacy and Intelligence

  • Emotions have a life cycle. Learn how to let them move through you, rather than getting stuck.

  • Discover how surprisingly simple it can be to just be with emotions in transformational ways, and what a difference that can make in your relationship life. 

90-Minute Video Class - Free With Academy Membership

Building

Self-Compassion

  • Are you hard on yourself, struggling with your inner critic, or maybe even "your own worst enemy" sometimes?  

  • Learn how to rewire your brain toward more self-compassion, even if that feels impossible right now. (You really can do it! And it will make a huge difference in your relationships.) 

90-Minute Video Class - Free With Academy Membership

Five Keys to Finding and Being The Right Partner

  • Learn what really keeps women single when you don't want to be, and why you may be blocking love from coming your way. 

  • Discover what really matters most in a love relationship, and how to open to it. 

90-Minute Video Class - Free With Academy Membership

Love & Relationship Skills

How to Be A Relationship Master, Not Disaster :)

  • Gottman relationship research has identified the key skills that make relationships last -- and they're all learnable! Master the 5:1 ratio, the “soft start,” and how to avoid the Four Horsemen of the Relationship Apocalypse. 

90-Minute Video Class - Free With Academy Membership

The Art of Giving And Receiving

  • Do you sometimes give too much and then feel depleted, frustrated or resentful that you're not getting enough back?

  • Learn how to ask for what you want in ways that make you more likely to get it, and give only what you truly want to give. 

90-Minute Video Class - Free With Academy Membership

The Art and Science of Boundaries and Requests

  • How to make your requests specific, flexible and actionable enough that the other person wants to meet them. 

  • How to make your "No" compassionate and responsive, so you can remain connected while setting boundaries.

90-Minute Video Class - Free With Academy Membership

Communication

Power Tools

  • Do you sometimes hear yourself speaking harshly and then regretting it later -- or else staying quiet because you don't trust yourself to speak without starting a fight? 

  • Stop triggers from getting in your way, so your communication can actually serve your emotional intimacy.

90-Minute Video Class - Free With Academy Membership

Healing Push-Pull Relationship Dynamics

  • Is your girlfriend pushing you for more closeness, getting hurt, angry and jealous a lot -- or backing away, shutting down, and insisting on more space?

  • Learn the attachment style differences at the root of this problem, and gain the skills to heal this dynamic so it doesn't have to tear your relationship apart.

90-Minute Video Class - Free With Academy Membership

Overcoming Defensiveness

  • Do you get defensive when your GF complains, or maybe even hear criticism when it's not there? 

  • Learn why defensiveness is such a reflex, why it causes problems, and how to overcome it so the two of you can get close again.  

90-Minute Video Class - Free With Academy Membership

Sign Up For Academy Membership & Get All These Classes Free

Transformational Acceptance & Empathy

  • You want to be seen, heard, and loved the way you are, right? And so does she.  

  • Learn how to cultivate and express true acceptance and empathy, and how this energy can transform your relationship. 

90-Minute Video Class - Free With Academy Membership

Building Emotional Intimacy

  • Real emotional intimacy takes specific skills to build. Learn how to give and receive the quality of presence that lets you really know the woman you love, and be known by her. 

     

  • Learn how to soften your armor and create true connection.

90-Minute Video Class - Free With Academy Membership

Connection-Building Conversations

  • Learn the fine art of having conversations that go deep, and bring you closer to friends and/or a partner.   

  • Develop the listening skills that really help someone feel heard and cared-about, so you can open up to each other in healthy ways. 

90-Minute Video Class - Free With Academy Membership

Relationship Repair Toolkit

  • You want to be seen, heard, and loved the way you are, right? And so does she.  

  • Learn how to cultivate and express true acceptance and empathy, and how this energy can transform your relationship. 

90-Minute Video Class - Yours Free With Academy Membership

Speak & Be Heard, Listen & Connect

  • Learn what you've been doing wrong in communication, and how to do it right so you can build and maintain emotional intimacy. Get heard, and hear the one you love, when it really matters. One of our most powerful classes!

90-Minute Video Class - Yours Free With Academy Membership

SCORE: The Five-Step Process For Healing Conflict At Its Source

  • Fights happen because we get triggered -- and no matter how hard you try, you can't make peace from a triggered state.  

  • Learn how to shift out of your triggered mind and actually have healing conversations instead of fights! 

90-Minute Video Class - Yours Free With Academy Membership

Sign Up For Academy Membership & Get All These Classes Free

Building Emotional

Self-Awareness

  • Do you ever wish the emotional part of relationships could just be easier?

  • Make your relationships easier and happier by learning how to work with your emotions effectively.  

90-Minute Video Class - Yours Free With Academy Membership

Emotional Self-Awareness and Empathy

  • Understand the key difference between empathizing with someone's experience, vs. colluding with her story (one creates intimacy, the other keeps you stuck.) 

90-Minute Video Class - Yours Free With Academy Membership

Create A Relationship That Truly Fits You

  • You don't need to give yourself up for love! 

  • Learn how to identify a relationship model and approach that truly works for your stage of life, needs and priorities.  

90-Minute Video Class - Yours Free With Academy Membership

Cultivating Vulnerability To Increase Connection

  • Most of us long for closeness, yet we struggle to do the one thing that makes it possible. Learn the difference between self-disclosure and true vulnerability, and how to safely open to more connection.  

90-Minute Video Class - Yours Free With Academy Membership

Healthy Lesbian Relationship Fundamentals

  • There are key steps to take to keep your relationship strong, and stop intimacy-killing habits from getting in the way! Learn how to stay connected and keep the love energy flowing. 

90-Minute Video Class - Yours Free With Academy Membership

Understanding and Healing Your Attachment Style

  • Your attachment style was formed in childhood, but it's responsible for most of the relationship challenges you face today. Learn how to understand your brain's default  intimacy blueprint and how to make it healthy! 

90-Minute Video Class - Yours Free With Academy Membership

Navigating Differences Consciously

  • Whether your relationship is interracial, or you're of different ages or backgrounds or social classes or ability levels, learn how your differences can enrich your connection.  

90-Minute Video Class

Healthy Closeness, Healthy Distance

  • What are your favorite forms of connection? What kinds of autonomy help you thrive? Learn how to navigate both closeness and distance to keep your relationship strong. 

90-Minute Video Class

Sign Up For Academy Membership Here To Get All Of These Classes Free

Lesbian Sex & Gender

Bedroom Communication

 

The secret to being able to rock each other's worlds in bed is right here, in these empowering sexual communication tools!

 

Stop being held back by common barriers to making requests, giving and hearing feedback in bed, so both of you can get more fulfilled. 

 

90-Minute Video Class, Yours Free With Deep-Dive Membership 

 

Female Sexual Anatomy of Pleasure/How to Make Love to a Woman

  • It's not just about the clitoris and the G-spot! Did you know there's an A-spot and a P-spot, too? Learn how amazing female bodies are, and how to maximize your own or a GF's pleasure.  

90-Minute Video Class, Yours Free With Deep-Dive Membership

Oral Sex & Energy Sex

One of our all-time best sellers, this class is a must-watch whether you're newly out or a lifelong lesbian! Viewers call it liberating and life-changing. Learn how to  experience and give more pleasure and share the power of sexual energy, too.

 

90-Minute Video Class, Free With Deep-Dive Membership

 

Solo Sexual Enlivenment

  • Erotic energy is life energy, and with or without a partner, it's yours to revel in, cultivate and draw power from.

  • Learn how to enliven yourself sexually in ways that go far beyond your usual forms of "self pleasure," and how this can improve your life. 

90-Minute Video Class, Free With Academy Membership

Understanding & Embracing Your Erotic Self

  • It's not easy to know what you want, ask for it, feel good about your fantasies, and feel like a good lover, too, in our misogynist and homophobic world. But this class will inform and empower you! 

90-Minute Video Class, Free With Academy Membership

Healing Internalized Homophobia

  • This class will support you to release the toxic imprint of homophobia. Learn how to more fully celebrate and inhabit  your lesbian or queer self, and the beauty of your sexuality and life.  

90-Minute Video Class, Free With Academy Membership

Sexual Energy & Energetic Sexuality

  • Learn why cultivating your sexual energy is within your power and the most likely way to become magnetic to women, rather than getting "friend-zoned." 

  • Discover how full-body orgasms and other forms of energy sex can be accessible to you!  

90-Minute Video Class, Free With Academy Membership

Embracing Sexual and Gender Complexity

  • Lesbian/queer gender expression can be wonderfully complex! Join us for an affirming and illuminating class. 

  • Learn how sexual and/or gender fluidity can be a gift and source of richness in your life.  

90-Minute Video Class, Free With Academy Membership

Let's Talk About Gender

  • Which form(s) of gender expression feel most like you to you? Butch, femme, genderqueer, androgynous, all or none of the above? 

  • Learn how to better understand queer gender in our community, and how to more fully embrace your own unique gender. 

90-Minute Video Class, Free With Academy Membership

Sacred Sexuality

  • Learn how the sexual and spiritual aspects of your life can be deeply entwined, and how to cultivate erotic energy as part of a sacred path of opening and transformation.  

  • Discover how your body can be a portal to the divine.   

90-Minute Video Class, Free With Academy Membership

Releasing Blocks to Full Erotic Aliveness

  • Erotic aliveness is your birthright, but so many forces have probably blocked you from knowing or embracing your true sexual power, energy and turn-ons. 

  • Learn how to release your erotic blocks and expand into the fullness of your sexual self. 

90-Minute Video Class, Free With Academy Membership

Conscious Queer Sexuality & Kink

  • Learn how the kink community's emphasis on consent can transform your sex life, whether or not you're "kinky."

  • Discover more about what kink truly is, and why it's a path of healing and freedom for many in the queer community and beyond. 

90-Minute Video Class, Free With Academy Membership

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Breakup Recovery

Support For Healing And Reclaiming Your Life 

Conscious Uncoupling (Even By Yourself)

  • The end of a relationship is never easy. But whether you do it alone or together, a conscious uncoupling process can make a huge difference in helping you move forward.  

90-Minute Video Class, Free With Academy Membership

Making Peace

With The Past 

  • This class will help you finally move on by reaching true understanding of what happened in past relationships, and helping you cultivate compassion and forgiveness for yourself. 

90-Minute Video Class, Free With Academy Membership

Surviving and Thriving After a Lesbian Breakup

  • Lesbian breakups can be among the most painful experiences on earth. Get through the pain faster with this class.  

  • Don't stay stuck, and don't keep re-traumatizing yourself. Instead, learn how to actually heal.  

90-Minute Video Class, Free With Academy Membership

Sign Up For Academy Membership Here And Get Free Access To All These Classes & More

Attachment Healing 

Healing Push-Pull Relationship Dynamics

  • Is your girlfriend pushing you for more closeness, getting hurt, angry and jealous a lot -- or backing away, shutting down, and insisting on more space?

  • Learn the attachment style differences at the root of this problem, and gain the skills to heal this dynamic so it doesn't have to tear your relationship apart.

90-Minute Video Class, Yours Free With Academy Membership

DIY Lesbian Attachment Healing 

  • This is a self-study course with audio lessons, worksheets, and guided exercises designed to actually rewire your brain toward more secure attachment -- plus recordings of live Q&A sessions about the material. 

Get The Attachment Healing Self-Study Course A La Carte For $199

Or Get This Powerful Self-Study Attachment Course Free With Deep-Dive Membership

Understanding and Healing Your Attachment Style

  • Learn what's really at the root of your hardest relationship problems, and how to work with it.  

  • Develop more ease-filled, trusting, harmonious connection as you build secure attachment. 

90-Minute Video Class, Yours Free With Academy Membership

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