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The Intelligent, Compassionate Learning Community For Lesbians++

Welcoming All Women Who Love Women, Or Want To, And Adjacent Non-Binary People 

Lesbian Elders* 

Support & Connection Group

*For those who have 64+ years of life experience and/or resonate with who we are :)


We are now meeting weekly.

Click here to see our calendar :)

Why Lesbian Elders Support?  

Health issues, medical appointments, sometimes serious diagnoses. Supporting the people we love through those challenges, too, and sometimes losing them. Needing help we didn't need before. And through it all, still being our inimitable selves -- working to find meaning, have fun, create, connect, and to love and be loved... all of that is fodder for this group. Because whatever you're going through, life is richer when shared.  

Meet Shayna, Our Facilitator & Member

Among other things, Shayna used to be a scribe, spiritual director, artist, sculptor, musician, athlete, professional juggler, editor and tennis teaching pro. She is no longer those things. Life changes as we age, in so many ways. We'll be talking about that, and many other issues. Shayna is still an avid reader who actively believes in learning and growing, and is participating in the Conscious Girlfriend Academy Coach Training. 

Our Vision for the Lesbian Elders Group 

Shayna says, "I want this group to be a place where women share our joy, our art, our music. Maybe we'll talk about an Adrienne Rich poem, or watch a movie together. Maybe we'll talk about writing our wills or getting our Power Of Attorney forms in order. Maybe we'll talk about losing friends. Or about dating in our 60s, 70s, 80s. Maybe we'll form support trees for each other. Maybe women in the group will fall in love with each other. We'll definitely laugh."

Join Us Every Thursday

We are forming a community of elders and would love to know what you want and need from such a community. Our hope is to offer a sense of lesbian home and chosen family, where all conversations are welcome. We're meeting weekly, each Thursday from 9:00-10:30 a.m. Pacific time.

  • The Lesbian Elders Support & Connection Group is a program of the Conscious Girlfriend Academy. Learn more about

    the Academy below! 

     

    The Academy is the leading global resource for conscious lesbian and queer dating, relationship and sexuality education and support.   

See All Our Classes & Events Here

Annual Basic Membership Includes:

  • Live 4-Week Classes At Least Nine Times Per Year.  Value: $1791 year 

    May 2024 

    Lesbian Dating & Love Over 60

    Lesbian Attachment Healing

    June-August 2024 

    Heal From Lesbian Heartbreak

    Highway Out Of Hell: Recovering From Toxic Lesbian Relationships 

    September-December 2024  

    Lesbian Dating Savvy: Get Ready To Find Her 

    Lesbian Dating Empowerment: Know If She's Right For You

    Lesbian Online Dating and Lesbian Long-Distance Relationships 

    Lesbian Communication For Emotional Intimacy (Stop The Fights!)

    January-April 2025  

    Open-Hearted Boundaries & Skillful Requests

    Lesbian Bedroom Communication 

    No More Narcissists or Unavailable Women! Rewriting Your Relationship Scripts 

  • 12 Months Of Weekly Coach-Led Dating, Love & Connection Skills Labs. Value: $2487/year

    Meet every Tuesday night, rain or shine, with a skillful coach and a like-minded group of lesbians++ determined to crack the code of healthy dating and love. Together, we practice the skills for making connection, knowing who's right for you, getting what you need, and healing conflicts. 

  • Over 40 On-Demand Videos In The World's Biggest Lesbian Love Resource Library.  Value: $1899 year 

    Dive into our archives for a lesbian love education available nowhere else in the world! 

   TOTAL VALUE: $6177  

Yes, I Want A Whole Year Of Basic Membership For $997

           But If You're Really Serious About Your Love Life...  

 Deep-Dive Membership Includes:

 12 Months Of Basic Membership, PLUS

Group Coaching For 90 Minutes After Every Live Class 

(That's 36 Group Coaching Sessions Per Year)

 

    TOTAL VALUE: $11,577   

Make My Membership A Deep Dive For $1997

           But Who Needs Classes On Being A Girlfriend?

Know anyone who's gotten divorced lately?

The Conscious Girlfriend Academy could save you huge amounts of money, 

as well as years lost to fighting, pain and heartache.

 

Ever pay big weekly therapy bills?   

Members describe Conscious Girlfriend Academy as "therapy on steroids" -- 

or preventive medicine and rehab for your lesbian heart and soul :)

 

Ever feel like you're lonely, tired of being single, but don't know how to date?

Or like a past relationship shattered you and you know you need to learn to do it differently?

Many lesbians++ say Conscious Girlfriend Academy has given them a path to healthy dating and love. 

 

Lesbian relationships are beautiful, powerful, complex, and challenging.

We need and deserve resources and community to help us honor our deepest longings. 

     Wait, What Were Those Options Again?    

Basic Membership

 

 All Our Live Classes For A Year 

+ 

40+ On-Demand Classes

In The World's Biggest

Lesbian Love Resource Library

+

Weekly Live Coach-Led

Skill-Building Sessions

 

   TOTAL VALUE: $6177  

Yes, I Want A Year Of Basic Membership For Just $997

Deep-Dive Membership

 

 All Our Live Classes For A Year 

+

80+ On-Demand Classes

In The World's Biggest

Lesbian Love Resource Library 

+

Weekly Live Coach-Led 

Skill-Building Sessions

+

36 Live Group Coaching Sessions

With The Director

 

    TOTAL VALUE: $11,577   

Make My Membership A Deep Dive For $1997

     We Exist To Support Lesbian & Queer Love    

Meet Your Mentor: Conscious Girlfriend Academy Director

Ruth L. Schwartz, Ph.D.

  • Author of eight books, including the Amazon bestseller Conscious Lesbian Dating & Love.
  • Certified sex coach through the Somatica Institute  
  • Trained with Gay & Katie Hendricks, authors of Conscious Loving
  • Former professor at Ashland University, Mills College, CSU-Fresno and five other colleges and universities
  • A proud member of the LGBTQ community since 1982
  • Transparent, compassionate, rigorous and boundlessly optimistic.
  • Committed to walking her talk, and to love. 

FAQs  

What kinds of women join the Academy?

 
  • Members come from throughout the United States, as well as Canada, Europe, Mexico, Israel and elsewhere.
  • Members range in age from their 20s through their 80s, but most are over 40.
  • Some members are dating, or want to date; others aren't ready for a new relationship, but want more community and more skills.
  • Many of our members have done a lot of personal growth work already; all are highly motivated to learn conscious lesbian dating and love skills.
  • Some members are newly coming out; others have been out for decades, and everything in between.
  • We are a warmly welcoming, intelligent and compassionate community for all self-identified women (and adjacent non-binary people) who love women, or want to! 

How will a monthly or yearly Academy membership help me change my love life? 

If you're like many of our members, you have a deep longing for a healthy, loving, trust-filled, supportive and passionate relationship, yet you're not sure how to find the right partner. In Academy classes you'll learn how to create a vision for your ideal relationship -- and build the skills to co-create your half of it. You'll learn how to date with clarity and confidence, how to recognize real compatibility (and not get fooled by chemistry or limerence, the "honeymoon stage"), how to communicate in ways that build emotional intimacy, and (if you choose) how to have fulfilling sex, too. Joining the Academy is like getting a gym membership for your romantic life! It gives you the community support and consistent education and practice you need, to become able to have the love life you want.  

Can I just buy the classes I want, instead of joining the Academy? 

Honestly, we used to sell a la carte classes, but we found it didn't give the same results. The Academy exists to help you gain and integrate the knowledge and skills to change your love life forever. That's an incredibly important and achievable goal, but it usually takes more than just watching a few classes to make it happen. It takes ongoing mentorship, support and practice -- and that's what you'll get by becoming a member.

 

We recommend joining the Academy for a year because 1) You get a big discount doing it that way. 2) Paying up front will motivate you to come to as many classes as you actually need, without having to second-guess yourself about each one. 3) Getting to know other members will be a big help in creating the love life you actually want. It's hard to do alone, and much easier when you're connected to like-minded women on similar journeys.   

I've already done years of therapy and/or other personal growth work. How will the Academy be different?  

Just like you, many of our members have done a lot of self-work -- yet it's rare for that work to specifically address the unique gifts and challenges of lesbian relationships. Therapy, 12-step, meditation, Landmark, and other kinds of growth and healing work are all incredibly valuable, yet lesbian dating and lesbian love requires certain highly specific understandings and skills which many people haven't found elsewhere -- and find in the Academy. Plus, along with mentorship and support, we offer opportunities to practice what you learn.   

Do you offer private coaching? 

Yes! We've got Conscious Girlfriend Certified Coaches! Check them out here. CGA coaches have received the world's best training in the particular challenges of lesbian coming out, lesbian dating, lesbian relationships, lesbian attachment, lesbian sex and lesbian breakups -- and their support is very powerful. However, unless your money and time are unlimited, we strongly encourage you to join the Academy too. Our classes cover life-changing information in a more budget-friendly way, and give you the benefit of seeing and hearing like-minded women describe their journeys, ask questions, and receive group coaching. 

Participants Say:

You create such a safe container in which to explore sexual identity and connection... and honor all the different ways that humans show up or choose not to show up. That is FREAKIN' AWESOME MODELING! -- R+P, Lesbian Erotic Liberation Class

R+P

Lesbian Erotic Liberation Class

The community is a beautiful thing, critical to me & to so many of us, post-Covid, with my first & not very healthy relationship since my wife died 3 years ago. I’ve gratefully gotten involved w/ CGA for the information & support waiting for me here. 

 

Ellen

Academy Member

It was an enormous pleasure to participate in this course. I learned so much about myself, about romantic relationships between women, leaving behind old beliefs that don't serve me... I never imagined this would be so deep and so healing!  

Alexandra

Roadmap to Conscious Lesbian Dating & Lasting Love Class

See Our Upcoming Class Schedule

The program was amazing!  It really helped me to own my sexual identity and feel less self-conscious and embarrassed about coming out in my fifties. It was refreshing and comforting to meet others in the same boat.  The ladies in the academy are wonderful… many possibilities to make friends. Thank you so much for supporting me on this journey.  I will definitely recommend it to others. 


Chris 

Academy Member

I can honestly say I couldn't be happier because I have never been this happy before.  My new GF and I have our challenges here and there, but those become opportunities to take pause with each other in order to learn and grow and arrive at a deeper level of connection.  No fights, tension, stress...  You know, the CG promise! I will always be a grateful and devout follower of what I gained through you, CG and its community.  I am living proof that when I got myself good and ready, there she was. 


Dorothy

Academy Member,

Roadmap to Conscious Lesbian Dating & Lasting Love

I cannot express how valuable the Roadmap class was to me and for all I have continued to learn through The Academy and all the wonderful and beautiful women I have met there. My 2 very good friends have noticed and made wonderful comments to me regarding how much they can tell that I have grown over the past several months.  I am so happy that I have the skills to be able to put to use when needed!


Freddi 

Academy Member, Roadmap to Conscious Lesbian Dating & Lasting Love

Get A Full Year Of Basic Membership For Just $997
Get A Full Year Deep Dive Membership With Group Coaching For Just $1997/Year

You've Got Questions, We've Got Classes.  

Become A Supporting Member To Get Access To The Archives! 

Lesbian Dating Classes

Information you won't find anywhere else!

These on-demand classes are not for sale,

but are available free to Supporting Academy Members. 

Dating: Red, Green

and Yellow Flags

  • Learn why sometimes a red flag can turn yellow or even green -- but sometimes a green flag can change color, too.   

  • Gain the clarity to listen to your intuition, assess someone new, and also stay curious and open. 

90-Minute Video Class

Lesbian Dating

Deep Dive

  • How to know if you're actually ready to date, and what to do if you're not -- or if she's not.

  • Learn how to build a solid foundation whether you're local or long-distance, and what "friends first" and compatibility really mean.

  • And, just for fun, learn how to flirt, too...without committing!  

90-Minute Video Class

Wise Lesbian Dating Fundamentals

  • You've been around the block and you're ready to learn to do this thing differently -- but where do you begin? What does it even mean to "date," vs. just dive in?

  • Learn what to do when you feel a spark, and also when you don't, so you can actually find long-term love.

90-Minute Video Class

Releasing Blocks

to Love

  • Why sometimes that 67-point checklist actually keeps you from love -- and how to focus on what really matters in seeking a partner. 

  • Learn how to become someone who actually finds love, rather than keeps on looking.  

90-Minute Video Class

Conscious Connection & Dating

  • Learn how to make every date a good date while also dating with a clear vision -- and learn when and how to discuss that vision without scaring someone off. 

  • Strengthen your ability to be yourself on dates, while also gaining key information about compatibility.

90-Minute Video Class

Anatomy of A Lesbian Heartbreak

  • The truth about why so many relationships start out amazing, yet fall apart in less than a year -- and how to prevent this heartbreak. 

  • Learn how to stop getting derailed by a sense of scarcity, or attractions to women who aren't good for you. 

90-Minute Video Class

True Compatibility

  • Compatibility is key to a long-term relationship, but it's not intuitive. Learn the most  important factor (which probably isn't even on your radar!)

  • Do you ever want different, contradictory things? Learn how to become more compatible with yourself, so you can find a love that works for the complex being you are.

90-Minute Video Class

Preparing For A Healthy Relationship

  • Are you stuck in old stories or unrealistic fantasies about love? Learn how to create a nuanced and updated vision for the relationship you want. 

  • Build the skills and develop the mindset for a happy, lasting intimate relationship -- before you find her!

90-Minute Video Class

Rewrite Your

Relationship Scripts

  • Do you have painful patterns you replay again and again, like trying to "rescue" women who need help, falling for unavailable women, or over-giving and then feeling resentful?

  • Learn what it really takes to transform these dysfunctional "scripts," and create the new reality you truly want.  

90-Minute Video Class 

Lesbian Bed Life

Intelligent, frank, compassionate lesbian sex ed you won't find elsewhere.

On-demand classes available free to Supporting Academy Members! 

Bedroom Communication

The secret to being able to rock each other's worlds in bed is right here, in these empowering sexual communication tools.

 Lesbian Bed Life Fundamentals 

Want a deeply fulfilling sex life? This 5-video class gives you a comprehensive lesbian erotic education. 

Oral Sex & Energy Sex

One of our all-time best sellers, this class is a must-watch whether you're newly out or a lifelong lesbian. Viewers call it liberating and life-changing. 

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