Meet Your Instructor:

Conscious Girlfriend Academy Director

Ruth L. Schwartz, Ph.D.

Author of Conscious Lesbian Dating & Love

About This Class

"But Is She Even Out There? Is It Too Late?" 
 

Lesbians tend to feel a sense of scarcity. Add in getting older, and it's easy to fear that you might have just missed the (love) boat.

Maybe you're a widow, and the love of your life died.

Or maybe you've dated and loved, and gotten hurt.

Or maybe you've been single for a long time, and suddenly woke up and thought, "Wow -- I didn't intend to stay solo forever!"

Maybe you're just getting started on your journey of loving women. (We frequently work with women who are just coming out in their 50s, 60s or 70s.) 

Or maybe you've been out for decades. Regardless, it can be easy to wonder if it's too late for you to find the woman of your dreams, someone who's truly right for you, and for whom you are truly right, even now. Especially now. 

You might think, "Am I too set in my ways? Have my looks changed too much? Will anyone really want me? What about sex?

"Am I really capable of falling in love again, and do I even want that? Could I feel that strongly about someone and have it be healthy, too? And, is the right person for me even out there?"

I want to be honest with you. I've seen over and over again that this universe is magical. It only takes one truly amazing person to change your entire life.

But you're not likely to find that person until you're truly ready for her.

(And that's a good thing -- because if you find her before you're ready for her, you'll just end up messing it up anyway, and what a loss that would be!)

Just today, I saw a 78-year-old woman glowing. She said, "I finally have the love I've always wanted, thanks to the Conscious Girlfriend Academy."

It didn't come easily for her. Like so many of us, she grew up with trauma that impacted her adult life. Aging has changed her. She knows herself better, which also made her rule out many women she once would have dated. 

Maybe you know what that's like? It can be depressing to feel like now the pool is even smaller than it used to be. And that's true. It is.

But you know what? That doesn't matter, because if you're dating to find that one special person, you don't need a big pool. You just need a way to find and recognize her.

And the clearer and more ready you are, the faster you can find her.

This live online class contains a compassionate, empowering and deeply supportive message for longtime lesbians, women who are just coming out, and everyone in between. She is out there -- if you are in here! (Meaning, if you're ready to recognize her and co-create the kind of relationship you both want and deserve.)