Lesbian Dating Essentials
Break Painful Patterns And Get To The Love Life You Want
Quinn's life was changed by the Academy. Read her story below!
Can You Relate To Any Of These Challenges?
"I've been out for decades, but I've never really dated."
"I'm new to dating women, and have no idea how to get started."
"Now that I'm over 50, everything about dating is just different."
"I've tried online dating, and it didn't work for me."
"I know I should 'put myself out there,' but HOW?!"
"I wish I could just skip the dating and be in a relationship already."
"I feel too burned to consider dating, yet I don't want to just give up."
"I'm not sure I want to date, but I know I need more connection in my life with healthier people."
Good News: Help Is Here!
Here's the thing: if you haven't known how to make lesbian dating work for you, you're not alone, and it's not your fault. Whether you've been out for a long time or are new to dating women, lesbian dating is intense, vulnerable, and often confusing.
Although queer dating is a learnable skill, it's not intuitive. When you try to just "follow your heart," it's likely to lead you straight to heartbreak, for reasons you'll learn all about in Lesbian Dating Essentials.
It can be hard to even find women to date -- especially where there's not a big lesbian or queer community. Someone can seem right on paper, but you don't feel a spark. Or, when you do feel a spark, you might ignore the red flags and end up in something toxic.
You deserve better. And you can have it! It just takes learning how.
The Lesbian Dating Essentials 12-Week Intensive is here to help you change your love life destiny, for good.
Tiggy and Jen met in the Academy, and are now pals who support each other's conscious love journeys.
Why This Course Exists
I'm Dr. Ruth Schwartz, and the inspiration for this class came from my third devastating breakup in a row, back in 2003. After many nights searching for the strength to go on, I knew I had to find a different way.
At the time, I was a professor of English and Creative Writing, and my third book had just been accepted for publication. My professional life was great, but my love life was a mess. I had followed my heart again and again, yet it had led me astray. What was I missing?!
I went back to school for a Ph.D. in Transpersonal Psychology, read every dating and relationship book, and took every workshop I could find. Although I learned a lot, my mentors were straight, and about 50% of what they taught was all wrong for me as a lesbian.
I realized that the help I needed for my lesbian dating and love life simply didn't exist. I was going to have to create it myself.
The book Conscious Lesbian Dating & Love, and the Conscious Girlfriend Academy, are the result.
Lesbian/Queer Dating & Love, Demystified!
Since our first class in 2014, Conscious Girlfriend programs have helped thousands of lesbians, queer women and adjacent non-binary people from 25 countries. We've got the keys to healing your heart, getting out of the wrong relationships, and getting into the right ones.
The Academy has many offerings throughout the year, plus two flagship 12-week courses: Lesbian Dating Essentials, offered each September, and The Roadmap To Conscious Lesbian Dating & Lasting Love, offered each January.
Our participants' stories are proof that the Academy works.
Members meet for in-person book groups in several cities.