Lesbian Bed Life:
Frank, Empowering Sex Ed For WLW, Sapphics,
Lesbians & Adjacent Queer People
Are Lesbian Bed Life Classes Right for You?
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Want to overcome self-consciousness, shame, poor body image and other blocks to your full erotic aliveness, and feel sexy and at ease in the body you have?
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Are you ready to get help understanding and embracing what really turns you on, so you can feel empowered and at home in your erotic self?
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Feel uncomfortable giving pleasure, receiving pleasure, asking for what you want, or hearing a partner's feedback? That can change!
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Get the sexual spark back in your relationship and in your solo sex life, too! Sexual pleasure makes life better :)
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Enjoy, claim and appreciate the uniqueness of your lesbian/queer gender and sexual orientation, whether you're butch, femme, stud, andro, genderqueer, non-binary, or just yourself.
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Get frank, intelligent, compassionate, knowledgeable lesbian and queer help to have a sex life that really fulfills you, and also helps you be a great lover to any woman. Great sex is a learnable skill, and you deserve to learn it.
In Lesbian Bed Life classes, you’ll share a journey of sexual healing and expansion
with other lesbians and adjacent people uniting to reclaim and celebrate our sexuality.
Because Your Pleasure Matters.
Our Pleasure Matters.
Lesbian Bed Life is part of the Conscious Girlfriend Academy,
the #1 global platform helping lesbians and queer women date wisely and love well.
Get A Complete Erotic Education.
We've got 12 classes, sold as a bundle.
We've also got our life-changing
6-week Lesbian Erotic Liberation class.
Bedroom Communication
The secret to being able to rock each other's worlds in bed is right here, in these empowering sexual communication tools!
Stop being held back by common barriers to making requests, giving and hearing feedback in bed, so both of you can get more fulfilled.
Female Sexual Anatomy of Pleasure/How to Make Love to a Woman
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It's not just about the clitoris and the G-spot! Did you know there's an A-spot and a P-spot, too? Learn how amazing female bodies are, and how to maximize your own or a GF's pleasure.
Oral Sex & Energy Sex
One of our all-time best sellers, this class is a must-watch whether you're newly out or a lifelong lesbian! Viewers call it liberating and life-changing. Learn how to experience and give more pleasure and share the power of sexual energy, too.
Solo Sexual Enlivenment
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Erotic energy is life energy, and with or without a partner, it's yours to revel in, cultivate and draw power from.
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Learn how to enliven yourself sexually in ways that go far beyond your usual forms of "self pleasure," and how this can improve your life.
90-Minute Video Class
Understanding And Embracing Your Erotic Self
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Yes, you can: know what you want, ask for it, feel good about your fantasies, and become a great lover, too! This class will help you understand your erotic love language, and how to speak it fluently -- as well as converse with others :)
90-Minute Video Class
Healing Internalized Homophobia
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This class will support you to release the toxic imprint of homophobia. Learn how to more fully celebrate and inhabit your lesbian or queer self, and the beauty of your sexuality and life.
90-Minute Video Class
Sexual Energy & Energetic Sexuality
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Learn why cultivating your sexual energy is within your power and the most likely way to become magnetic to women, rather than getting "friend-zoned."
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Discover how full-body orgasms and other forms of energy sex can be accessible to you!
90-Minute Video Class
Embracing Sexual and Gender Complexity
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Lesbian/queer gender expression can be wonderfully complex! Join us for an affirming and illuminating class.
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Learn how sexual and/or gender fluidity can be a gift and source of richness in your life.
90-Minute Video Class
Let's Talk About Gender
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Which form(s) of gender expression feel most like you to you? Butch, femme, genderqueer, androgynous, all or none of the above?
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Learn how to better understand queer gender in our community, and how to more fully embrace your own unique gender.
90-Minute Video Class
Sacred Sexuality
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Learn how the sexual and spiritual aspects of your life can be deeply entwined, and how to cultivate erotic energy as part of a sacred path of opening and transformation.
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Discover how your body can be a portal to the divine.
90-Minute Video Class
Releasing Blocks to Full Erotic Aliveness
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Erotic aliveness is your birthright! Learn what has blocked you from claiming your true sexual power, energy, arousal and pleasure -- and how to release those blocks and expand into the fullness of your sexual self.
90-Minute Video Class
Conscious Queer Sexuality & Kink
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"Kink" is empowering consensual interaction that can spans a vast range, from psychological to physical power play. It can be sexual or non-sexual.
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Discover how exploring kink can be a path of healing and freedom.
90-Minute Video Class
NEW! Secrets of Great Lesbian/ Queer Oral Sex & Orgasms
with sex coach Kat Kolegas and Academy director Ruth Schwartz
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What does it really take to be "good" at lesbian oral sex? What if you take too long to come, or she does? What if you don't love it? What are some of the best routes to orgasm? How can you get more comfortable thinking and talking about all this, so you can know what you want, get it more often, and satisfy another woman, too?
2-Hour Video Class
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LESBIAN BED LIFE BUNDLE
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Get 12 individual 90 minute classes organized by topic
Forget Netflix! You could be watching classes about lesbian oral sex, female sexual anatomy of pleasure, conscious queer sexuality and kink, and lesbian gender instead!
LESBIAN EROTIC LIBERATION CLASS
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This 6-week class took participants on a journey of liberation.
We started from the beginning with reclaiming our erotic selves from trauma, then moved into understanding our erotic psyches, embracing our unique bodies and turn-ons, and communicating our desires.
DEEP DIVE ACADEMY MEMBERSHIP
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Get both sets of recordings plus access to monthly live group coaching.
Deep Dive Members get a whole year of support, plus all our recordings. Learn more and sign up here.
SEX COACHING PACKAGE
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Best Value: Get all the recordings, a year of live group coaching, plus 10 hours of 1:1 Coaching with Academy Director Ruth Schwartz.
Lesbian Bed Life Participants Say:
I absolutely loved that zoom session! It was about vulnerability, respect, diversity in desire, while at the same time normalizing our dark side and shame… and honoring who we are. I love the way you reassure the audience and made it safe while acknowledging the pleasure of flirting! This session was exploring limitations in our pleasure just as much as all the possibilities in front of us. The visualization was awesome! Thank you for honoring every aspect of sex without excluding any one.
"I learned so much! Your class was so incredibly validating, normalizing and liberating, even while you taught me that there is no 'normal.' I had no idea I could feel this free! Oh and it also helps me feel sooo much more ready to find a GF!"
"I spent a long time worrying that I wasn't a real lesbian because I didn't feel comfortable with certain activities.
This class helped me realize there is such a big world of possibilities. I can embrace what I do like and even feel open to exploring beyond my current comfort zone."
I just want to express my gratitude for today's class. In the past I have enjoyed intimacy but couldn’t really speak up for myself and my own needs. With permitting myself to say no, I can literally feel my chest/heart opening up and I feel what a difference this will make in my sex life! Such a relief.
Your class was very freeing, yes edgy, but you have a way of breaking the ice, and giving permission that really resonates with me. I think that is what I’ve needed for so long so I can really be my queer self.
"Wow! I truly had no idea how many pleasure spots women have! I can't wait to explore more with my GF. The suggestion to "go to pussy school" was so empowering."
"Wow, where were these classes thirty years ago, that's all I want to say. But better late than never, and thanks for preparing me to enjoy the rest of my life with more lesbian pleasure than ever before."
While the sex was great with my ex, these classes are teaching me that there is so much more! I am overcoming shame and fear and know that I am in the right place at the right time!
