Walk the Talk Show with Waylon Lewis presents:

Neuroplasticity, Lesbian love, Choosing the Right Partner, Compatibility…oh my! I love Ruth! She’s so wise and kind and fun. ~ Waylon

The first time I met Gladys, she was sitting in a 24-hour café on Market Street, wearing a gauzy red blouse. She'd been eating a triple-decker sandwich, but stopped when she saw me watching her.

Fantasizing about the perfect relationship is easy. Maintaining a successful relationship? Less easy. Maintaining a successful lesbian relationship? That comes with its own specific set of challenges and triumphs. 

In the movie, Abby joins her girlfriend Harper for the holidays, but finds out last-minute that Harper isn’t out to her family and endures humiliating shenanigans to maintain the secret....How could this be navigated?

Lesbian relationships are so often full of love, affection, talking about feelings (sometimes ad nauseam), and great sex (research proves we have better sex than straight people). But that doesn’t mean our relationships are flawless or without problems.

In my years of Buddhist practice, I’ve learned a lot from the four Brahma Viharas, also known as “beautiful relationship qualities” — loving-kindness, compassion, empathetic joy and equanimity.

“We live in different towns, and Susan hardly ever wants to talk on the phone,” Elise said tearfully. “It makes me feel so rejected, like I’m not worthy of her time and attention.”

Lesbian sexuality is beautiful and powerful.

Unfortunately, women loving women don’t hear that message nearly often enough. So let me say it again. Lesbian sexuality is beautiful and powerful...

Conscious Girlfriend Academy is an intelligent, compassionate learning community for lesbians that welcomes all women who love women (or want to) and adjacent non-binary people...

Hey girl. I see you, crushing on your lesbian friend. She’s cute, smart, loyal, witty, and sexy,  So I totally get it. I’d probably have a crush on her, too. Crushing on a woman can be amazing, and sexuality is fluid.

Help! I always end up with bisexual women who end up leaving me for men. This is the fourth time it’s happened! In the beginning, they always gush on and on: “You’re so beautiful, you’re such a goddess” and I fall for it every time. 

I don’t understand the statement you make about learning to create “a relationship that just works, rather than one that feels like hard work.” Aren’t relationships always hard work? (It sure seems like it to me!) After all, two people are always going to be different and have different needs.

My last three relationships all lasted less than a year. I thought my most recent ex was “the one,” but three months in, she stopped wanting to have sex with me! I know sex dies out after awhile,

It all started out so wonderfully, as many lesbian love stories do. Mary was smart, cute, insightful and interesting, and we connected on many levels.

My problem is that I can’t seem to accept imperfection. Every time I date someone, I find something wrong with her.