Finally: Your Roadmap To Lasting Lesbian++ Love
Warmly welcoming all self-identified women and adjacent non-binary people who love women or want to.
>>Watch the free replay of our live 2-hour intro class held 1/21/23, below!
Why Would Anyone Need A Roadmap to Lesbian Dating & Love?
Or: Doesn't it all work out automatically when you meet the right person? You know, your eyes meet across a crowded room and then you live happily ever after? Um... not.
If you've ever struggled with lesbian++ dating or relationships, you are not alone! And it's not your fault. And it doesn't have to be that way. >>Click Here (or above or below the image on the right) to watch the FREE 2-hour Intro Class that will help you understand how lesbian relationships are different, and how this course can be your first step in taking charge of your relationship destiny, so you can finally find and create the love you want.
Help is here. You deserve happy, healthy love, and you can have it. It just takes learning how. Conscious Girlfriend has supported women in 25 countries since 2014, and we are here for you, too!
>>Click Here To Watch The Free 2-Hour Intro: Roadmap To Conscious Lesbian Dating & Lasting Love
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The Roadmap To Conscious Lesbian Dating & Lasting Love exists to help you date and love in the ways you want and deserve.
Can you relate to any of these statements?
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Lesbian dating feels hard or intimidating.
Maybe you've never actually dated women -- either because you're new to lesbian life, or because you always dove right in when you felt a spark.
It feels hard to find lesbians near you. Or you just don't feel attracted to that many people. Or the idea of dating feels awkward or scary.
Maybe you don't trust your "picker." You don't want to risk your heart or settle for Ms. Wrong, but you also don't want to be alone forever.
If you've been out for a while, finding a girlfriend might have felt easier when you were younger, but now you wonder if it's too late for you. Is the right woman even out there?
Or, your last experience was so painful that you're not sure you even want to risk your heart again.
The truth is, what's smart for your heart is not always intuitive. Strong initial sparks are incredibly compelling, yet have little to no correlation with lasting happiness!
So, what does lead to lasting happiness in long-term lesbian love? This class will teach you, step by step. It will also give you life-changing mentorship and supportive community to help you get ready for the love you want, and then find her.
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Have you ever had your heart shattered? I have. Maybe you can relate...
At least once, you were sure you had found her. The connection was so deep, the chemistry so strong, and you were so happy together -- and then you ended up stuck on opposite sides of an emotional cliff, unable to reconnect. It might have taken you months or years to even begin to put yourself back together. You'd have to be crazy to ever try that again, wouldn't you?
This class will help you understand exactly why good relationships go bad, and what you need to do differently in choosing and/or being the right partner, to make sure it won't happen again.
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Deep down, you wonder if you're really lovable.
You're not as young as you used to be. You've got flaws and insecurities. Could someone really love you just the way you are? This class will help you understand what you truly have to offer, and exactly why you will be someone's dream come true. .
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You don't want to be alone, but you also don't want to settle.
If you can't trust your feelings to tell you who's right for you, what can you trust? You never want to risk pain like that again, so you tell yourself single life is good enough. But your heart won't stop yearning for connection, for a mate, a true love.
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Great news: there is an easier way, and a Roadmap to help you get there.
You can have the happy, healthy, lasting love you want. It just takes learning how.
Introducing the second-ever LIVE version!
The 12-Week Roadmap To Conscious Lesbian Dating & Lasting Love
This course has changed the lives of women in 25 countries since 2015.
Now we're offering an expanded and updated live version!
Join us live, learn from the recordings, or both.
Why the Roadmap class is the real answer to your
lesbian relationship challenges:
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Your longing for romantic love is both hard-wired and holy.
There's a good reason why you can't talk yourself out of longing for a partner. When it works well, partnership is one of the most joyful, life- and health-giving experiences on the planet. Of course you want it! The Roadmap class teaches you how to honor this longing wisely.
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You'll learn essential dating skills.
Women tend to bond fast, leading to the infamous "U-Haul on the second date" syndrome. Our brains literally get high on love, but when the brain chemicals wear off, we often find ourselves in trouble. The Roadmap class teaches you how to slow things down, so you can make wiser choices, avoid heartbreak and create lasting love.
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You'll learn the unique gifts and challenges of lesbian love.
Two women tend to have more exquisite intimacy than couples of other genders and orientations -- and also more intense triggers. Keeping lesbian love strong isn't rocket science, it's neuroscience! That's why the Roadmap class provides actionable steps based on cutting-edge brain science, psychology and attachment theory. It works!
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You'll learn what
true compatibility is.
Most women fall in love and then hope compatibility will automatically follow. That's like buying a lottery ticket. Learn why the wrong partner can feel so right at first, and how to recognize someone with whom you're compatible for the long haul. The Roadmap class gives you life-changing clarity.
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You'll learn to build the right foundation for the love you want.
You don't just need to find the right partner; you also need to learn to be the right partner. Learn the communication and conflict-healing skills to keep your bond growing and strong. The Roadmap class gives you tools designed by lesbians, for lesbians, to meet our community's unique needs.
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You'll get real support for
your journey.
Dating and love are vulnerable and the stakes are high, especially when you're 50+ and/or determined to finally do it right. Having community support changes everything. That's why the Roadmap class gives you live learning opportunities in groups of like-minded, growth-oriented lesbians and queer women -- as well as mentorship from Academy director Ruth Schwartz.
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Imagine this new reality:
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You're clear on what you want in partnership and have created a vision that feels deeply solid and right in your body, heart and soul. Even better, you know you're capable of embodying this vision, and recognizing someone else who is, too.
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Dating feels like an adventure in self-discovery and conscious connection. You've got a plan for HOW to meet women, based on your geography, personality and needs -- and your vision and heart are clear, not blurred by a sense of scarcity or insecurity.
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You trust yourself and your ability to get to know a potential Ms. Right in a way that is both open-hearted and discerning.
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You feel connected to yourself, worthy and deserving. You're empowered to date wisely, find and be the right partner, and create lasting love.
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Maybe your new love starts with a burst of fireworks, or maybe not. You've learned that often a slow burn may be more trustworthy. This doesn't mean you settle for a connection without sparks. It means you're making choices for the long haul, not just the U-Haul, because your heart is worth it.
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As you date in this way, you know how to recognize true compatibility. This time, you're not in denial or fantasy. You feel confident and solid, because you know you've taken the time and done the work -- and when someone special shows up, you're actually ready for her.
Rather than leaving your happiness up to luck or fate, you've taken charge of your relationship destiny. Together, you can build a healthy, secure love that supports you through tough stuff and brings you joy every day. Life is good. Love is good.
This reality can be yours.
The Roadmap class is the proven
way to get you there.
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Your Life-Changing, Love-Changing
Roadmap Class Will Include:
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12 Live Weekly Classes With All-New, Updated and Expanded Content!
In the past, the Roadmap class was offered as 12 weeks of pre-recorded audios. This is only the second time it will be delivered live. (You'll also get the recordings, of course, but attending live will let you get your questions answered, and have a more embodied experience. ($597 value)
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12 Weeks of Written Worksheets To Take Your Process Deeper
These self-exploration exercises will take your Roadmap transformation to a much deeper level. And the best thing is, you can connect with Roadmap Buddies in the class to share your process 1:1 or in small groups. ($200 value)
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Pay $100 More For A Full Year of Access to Live Weekly Roadmap Connection Groups
To really stay on track, you need community. Get nine full months of access to live weekly Roadmap Connection gatherings to support and deepen your learning, and help you practice new skills in community. ($597 value at Community Member Level)
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Additional Academy Membership Upgrade: Get Live Intimate Group Coaching Sessions, Too!
At the Supporting Member level, you also get 12 intimate live group coaching calls with CGA director Ruth Schwartz! Ruth no longer works 1:1, so this is the only way to access her transformational coaching. ($600 value, free with Supporting Level Membership)
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Tuition for the Roadmap Class is $597, with optional upgrades for an entire year
of live support through the Conscious Girlfriend Academy!
This is the most comprehensive support available anywhere
for women who love women, or want to.
Your ❤ is worth it, and there's a moneyback guarantee.
Partial scholarships and payment plans are also available. Write us to ask for one!
Your Roadmap Course Covers:
Module 1: Understand What a Healthy Relationship Is,
And Open To It
Get clear on how a conscious, healthy relationship really works, so you know where you're headed, understand your growth edges, and become able to both find and be the right partner.
"I’m in a new relationship, and my girlfriend and I have gone through all the Roadmap materials together! I feel conscious, and I’m in a relationship with someone conscious. We are meeting each other, body, mind and spirit. I truly didn’t know I would get to have this. I wish I could go back and tell my younger self about this!" - Emma, age 53
Module 2: Build Self-Compassion
Transform your inner critic into an inner advocate and learn to treat yourself with conscious, compassionate loving kindness, creating more ease and well-being in all of your relationships.
"I’ve walked around in the past feeling like I was too much for people. Now I feel at home in myself, and at home with my new partner. I have the resources and skills to move forward with her, and to allow her to love me, all the parts of me. I want to tell other women: Don’t compromise! The love you want is possible! But you really do have to be the right partner before you can find her."– Sylvia, age 45
Module 3: Make Peace With The Past
Finally feel free once you can clearly see what happened in past relationships, understand what part you played in co-creating it, and restore self-trust with the knowledge that you can and will do it differently next time around.
"I want to express my deep gratitude for your leadership. This course has enriched my life tremendously, and made me feel normal even though I’m single :) I’ve taken it twice now because I tended to give myself away. It has been important for me to get to know myself in this way." – Rhea, age 60
Module 4: Know & Befriend Your Emotions
Develop the ability to know what you feel when you feel it, so you can remain connected to others and make healthy choices about your emotions, rather than being controlled by them.
"Thank you for creating this holistic approach. It has really moved, supported and encouraged me. I don’t have words for how deeply grateful I am. There has been an incredible healing in my relationship with myself." - Dori, age 46
Module 5: Intimacy-Building Communication
Develop clean communication skills to help both you and your future partner feel seen, heard, appreciated and respected. Don't date without these skills on board!
"Before, I was always scared to express my true needs in a relationship, fearful of pushing the other person away. I see now that made my relationships unhealthy and actually kept me from wanting to date again. This class has made an enormous difference. I even feel the difference with my friends! And I feel a new confidence that I'll be able to hold onto myself when I meet the right woman." – Ellen, age 64
Module 6: Learn to Heal Conflict at its Source
Learn powerful conflict-busting practices based on neuroscience so you can stop blowing up or shutting down. No more going to bed mad, stuffing feelings, or endless hours of draining processing - learn to work through issues and stay connected instead.
"I can’t tell you how much I appreciate this course. The other day I used all the skills with a new person I'm dating. They really worked! It's a whole new world." -- Cindy, age 59
Module 7: Overcome Fear and Cultivate Resilience
Develop the ability to take smart-for-your-heart risks and gain powerful strategies for transforming your fear of rejection, fear of hurting someone or being hurt, fear of saying Yes when you mean No, and any other fears that might be holding you back.
"I loved the Roadmap program! I can now happily report that using the tools and techniques in their workshop really helped me find the relationship of my dreams. Now I share my life with this amazing woman who feels like just the right match." – Lucy, age 47
Module 8: Attraction, Chemistry & Compatibility
Understand what kinds of chemistry, attraction and compatibility are truly necessary for you, and stop getting misled by the kinds that aren't healthy or sustainable.
"Wow, wow, wow. Now I totally see why my past relationships didn't work. I really didn't understand what to look for, beyond that initial spark. It's crazy to see how many mistakes I made, but it's just because no one had taught me what I really needed to look for, until now. I am super-grateful." – Kathy, age 62
Module 9: Create Your Relationship Vision
Design your ideal relationship with crystal clarity about your deal-breakers and must-haves, along with the curiosity and flexibility love requires (it's a both/and!)
"I had relationships for decades without ever having the concept of a 'relationship vision.' I always thought when I met the right woman, we would just work it out. Now I see why that was a recipe for pain. I know myself so much better and feel so much better-equipped to find the right partner for this next stage of my life." – Joan, age 67
Module 10: Develop Your Dating Plan
Create a dating plan that fits you, based on all of the available online and offline options for meeting women, so you can actually find her.
"Thank you for creating this holistic approach. I'm actually enjoying dating for the first time ever. I no longer feel as if I'm putting my heart or my self-esteem on the line each time I reach out. Instead, I feel curious and even confident. I'm making new friends and even educating other women on the conscious dating process, believe it or not! I haven't met HER yet, but I can feel she's on her way:)" Elizabeth, age 70
Module 11: Outsmart Your Hardwired Brain Chemistry!
Stay clear and strong, and avoid merging or the lesbian U-haul, even if limerence and "honeymoon feelings" take you over.
"It's amazing how quickly I can think I'm in love. Now I watch that happening in myself but I know how to slow it down and make good choices. I really could have used this info 20 years ago, but I'm so grateful to have it now." -- Nina, age 51
Module 12: Date, Communicate, Assess and Find Lasting Love
Now that you know what you want and have the skills you need, you can explore new connections with clarity, curiosity and compassion, knowing you're on your way to the love you want.
"I had a few dates with a woman I found really attractive, and in the past I would have gone for it, but this time it was so clear to me we weren't the right fit. I feel incredibly empowered! Now I'm communicating with someone interesting on a dating site and I can feel the difference. It's a mutual connection, rather than that roller-coaster I used to go for. I can’t tell you how much I appreciated your course. You're a heart-saver!" -- Anna, age 45
"I finally feel prepared for the love life I want. I wish I'd gotten this information
20 or 30 years ago, but -- better late than never!" -- Cindy, age 65
Roadmap Participants Say:
"It was quite a process for me to get to the point of believing I deserved healthy love. Now I’ve met a wonderful woman and there’s a lot of compatibility. And there’s a lot of scary stuff in a new relationship, so I’m glad to have the Roadmap to help me navigate it." – Joanne, age 59
"The Roadmap course has been truly life-changing, and you can quote me on that! Helping me move from such a stuck place into hope and optimism was a huge task! Now I've finally had the confidence to create an online dating profile, something I never thought I would do." -- Karen, age 64
The Roadmap Course Comes With Academy Membership For A Full Year, For Just $100 More.
Because Your Heart is Worth It.
Q: Why purchase the Roadmap class alone, versus a year-long Conscious Girlfriend Academy membership for just $100 more?
A: Honestly, if you're ready for the love life you want, or ready to get ready, a year-long Conscious Girlfriend Academy membership is a screaming good deal.
In addition to the 12 LIVE Roadmap classes and 12 weeks of worksheets, you'll get 9 additional months of live support, plus access to over 75 recorded classes in the archives, by becoming a member. We're the compassionate, intelligent learning community for lesbians and queer women.
Is The Academy Right For You?
You're smart, thoughtful, and willing to work hard.
You've probably done various kinds of healing, therapy,
12-step work, meditation, or other spiritual work.
Intimate relationships are the final frontier.
Learn how to do them right.
The Conscious Girlfriend Academy exists to support
women who value growth, and are willing to take action
to learn how to be the right partner, as well as find her.
We look forward to welcoming you into our community.
We are actively anti-racist and warmly welcome all self-identified women and AFAB non-binary people
who love women, or want to.
Conscious Girlfriend Academy Director Ruth L. Schwartz, Ph.D., talks about the beauty and challenge of lesbian love.
Learn why our relationships can be the best -- but also the most painful if you don't know how to find the right partner, or don't have the right skills. The Academy is here to help you have the love of your dreams.
Academy Members Say:
"I’m in a new relationship, and my girlfriend and I have gone through all the Roadmap materials together! I feel conscious, and I’m in a relationship with someone conscious. We are meeting each other, body, mind and spirit. I truly didn’t know I would get to have this. I wish I could go back and tell my younger self about this!"
- Emma, age 53
"I want to express my deep gratitude for your leadership. This program has enriched my life tremendously, and made me feel normal even though I’m single :) I’ve taken the Roadmap course twice now because I tended to give myself away. It has been important for me to get to know myself in this way." – Rhea, age 60
"I’ve walked around in the past feeling like I was too much for people. Now I feel at home in myself, and at home with my new partner. I have the resources and skills to move forward with her, and to allow her to love me, all the parts of me. I want to tell other women: Don’t compromise! The love you want is possible! But you really do have to be the right partner before you can find her." – Sylvia, age 45
"Thank you for creating this holistic approach. It has really moved, supported and encouraged me. I don’t have words for how deeply grateful I am. There has been an incredible healing in my relationship with myself." - Dori, age 46
Conscious Girlfriend Academy Director Ruth L. Schwartz, Ph.D., talks about the beauty and challenge of lesbian love.
Learn why our relationships can be the best -- but also the most painful if you don't know how to find the right partner, or don't have the right skills. The Academy is here to help you have the love of your dreams.
"I have turned a corner of such magnitude that I can almost not believe it. I’m more self-aware, able to step back and ask questions like Is it true? What would I feel if I didn’t have that thought? I’m able to be aware of getting stuck in the story, which I have found really sets me free, to let go of it. I’m so much happier as a result. – Kristine, age 48
"I can’t tell you how much I appreciate this program. The other day I used all the skills and had an incredibly healthy conversation with a woman I'm dating! It's early days yet but I can feel a huge difference in myself. " - Anna, age 60
FAQs
If You're Looking For Lesbian Relationship Help, or Lesbian Dating Help, Or Have Questions About Common Lesbian Relationship Problems, We've Got Your Solution.
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How Can I Get Lesbian Relationship Help?
Conscious Girlfriend offers lesbian dating help and lesbian relationship help in a number of ways! We have certified lesbian dating coaches and lesbian relationship coaches. All of them have gone through intensive training about lesbian relationship problems and solutions.
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What if I'm not sure I'm ready for a relationship?
It's wise not to date before you're ready. The Find True Love Online class can help you see what you need to do to get ready, and make profound shifts toward what you want next in love.
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What if I want a non-traditional relationship?
The Find True Love Online class will help you clearly define exactly what you want and need in true love, and stand strong in your vision. Whatever that vision is, you will be warmly supported!
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How much time will the class take?
You can pace your own experience, since all of the live classes are recorded and the other materials are yours to use at any time. That said, if you're ready to find your true love, we recommend you allocate at least four hours per week to the process. It's the best investment in your happiness you can possibly make.
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What if I've never had a relationship with a woman?
If you are a self-identified woman who loves women, or wants to, you are welcome! Classes include lifelong lesbians, women who are just coming out, and non-binary folx comfortable with lesbian culture, too.
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What if I want to find true love, but not online?
These days the vast majority of new lesbian couples meet online, so we'd hate to see you rule out that possibility. However, much of the coursework in Find True Love Online will support you even if you're committed to meeting someone offline.
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What if online dating hasn't worked for me before?
The Find True Love Online class offers a proven method to help you skillfully navigate both the dating sites/apps, and your own heart and attractions. It's a very different experience than DIY trial and error, and will get you different results.
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Do you offer a money-back guarantee?
While we can't guarantee you a girlfriend, we can guarantee that if you attend the classes and do the work, your love life will change. If you faithfully work the process, but feel after 12 weeks that you didn't get your money's worth, we'll happily refund it.
Money Back Guarantee
It's vulnerable to sign up for a class like this, and it's natural to wonder if it will really work. So here's my promise to you: If you do the work, the Roadmap class works. Guaranteed.
Here's how the guarantee works: Sign up for the class and attend all12 classes (live or recorded), then fill out the Roadmap worksheets for all 12 weeks. If you do your part for the full 12 weeks and then feel you didn't get what you came for, just let us know, send us your filled-out worksheets, and we'll refund 100% of your money. You've got nothing to lose.
Please note: the money-back guarantee covers the Roadmap class only,
not Academy membership.
Ruth L. Schwartz, Ph.D.
Director, Conscious Girlfriend Academy
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