Your Roadmap To Conscious Lesbian Dating & Lasting Love
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CONSCIOUS GIRLFRIEND'S SIGNATURE COURSE
Conscious Lesbian Dating & Love:
A Roadmap To Finding The Right Partner And
Creating The Relationship Of Your Dreams
The book and course that have changed the lives of women in 25 countries.
Women who love women want and deserve happy, healthy long-term relationships --
yet you may not have known how to find the right partner and keep your love strong.
This isn't your fault. After all, they don't teach this stuff in school! But you can learn it now.
Here's why you need the Roadmap.
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Lesbian relationships are better, but harder.
Two women can bond very deeply and quickly -- which also means we trigger each other big-time. If you want great love, you need great skills. The Roadmap will help you learn them.
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Take it slow for the long haul, not the U-haul.
Most lesbians need to learn how to actually date. This class teaches you to connect consciously and build a solid foundation for the love you want.
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Get pain, fear, anger and regret out of your way.
What you've lived out in the past doesn't have to define you now. The Roadmap will help you make peace with the past so you can create the future you want.
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Recognize what creates long-term compatibility.
Chemistry is compelling, but other factors matter much more. Learn what those are and stop investing your heart in the wrong women.
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Eliminate your intimacy-killing habits.
Conflict is inevitable, but fights and disconnection are optional. Learn how to build emotional intimacy and trust, even when you disagree.
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Transform with the help of community support.
Dating can be confusing and scary, especially when you're over 50 and/or determined to finally do it right. Don't go it alone. The Roadmap comes with Academy membership to give you a learning community of likeminded, growth-oriented lesbians.
The Roadmap Is A 12-Module Self-Paced Course,
Supported By Weekly Live Zoom Gatherings That Take You Deeper.
Here's What You'll Learn:
Module 1:
Understand What a Healthy Relationship Is,
And Open To It
Get clear on how a conscious, healthy relationship really works, so you know where you're headed, understand your growth edges, and become able to both find and be the right partner.
"I’m in a new relationship, and my girlfriend and I have gone through all the Roadmap materials together! I feel conscious, and I’m in a relationship with someone conscious. We are meeting each other, body, mind and spirit. I truly didn’t know I would get to have this. I wish I could go back and tell my younger self about this!" - Emma, age 53
Module 2:
Build Self-Compassion
Transform your inner critic into an inner advocate and learn to treat yourself with conscious, compassionate loving kindness, creating more ease and well-being in all of your relationships.
"I’ve walked around in the past feeling like I was too much for people. Now I feel at home in myself, and at home with my new partner. I have the resources and skills to move forward with her, and to allow her to love me, all the parts of me. I want to tell other women: Don’t compromise! The love you want is possible! But you really do have to be the right partner before you can find her."– Sylvia, age 45
Module 3:
Make Peace With The Past
Finally feel free once you can clearly see what happened in past relationships, understand what part you played in co-creating it, and restore self-trust.
"I want to express my deep gratitude for your leadership. This course has enriched my life tremendously, and made me feel normal even though I’m single :) I’ve taken it twice now because I tended to give myself away. It has been important for me to get to know myself in this way." – Rhea, age 60
Module 4:
Know & Befriend Your Emotions
Develop the ability to know what you feel when you feel it, so you can remain connected to others and make healthy choices about your emotions, rather than being controlled by them.
"Thank you for creating this holistic approach. It has really moved, supported and encouraged me. I don’t have words for how deeply grateful I am. There has been an incredible healing in my relationship with myself." - Dori, age 46
Module 5:
Intimacy-Building Communication
Develop clean communication skills to help both you and your future partner feel seen, heard, appreciated and respected. Don't date without these skills on board!
"Before, I was always scared to express my true needs in a relationship, fearful of pushing the other person away. I see now that made my relationships unhealthy and actually kept me from wanting to date again. This class has made an enormous difference. I even feel the difference with my friends! And I feel a new confidence that I'll be able to hold onto myself when I meet the right woman." – Ellen, age 64
Module 6:
Learn to Heal Conflict at its Source
Learn powerful conflict-busting practices based on neuroscience so you can stop blowing up or shutting down. No more going to bed mad, stuffing feelings, or endless hours of draining processing - learn to work through issues and stay connected instead.
"I can’t tell you how much I appreciate this course. The other day I used all the skills with a new person I'm dating. They really worked! It's a whole new world." -- Cindy, age 59
Module 7:
Overcome Fear and Cultivate Resilence
Develop the ability to take smart-for-your-heart risks and gain powerful strategies for transforming your fear of rejection, fear of hurting someone or being hurt, fear of saying Yes when you mean No, and any other fears that might be holding you back.
"I loved the Roadmap program! I can now happily report that using the tools and techniques in their workshop really helped me find the relationship of my dreams. Now I share my life with this amazing woman who feels like just the right match." – Lucy, age 47
Module 8:
The Truth About Attraction, Chemistry & Compatibility
Understand what kinds of chemistry, attraction and compatibility are truly necessary for you, and stop getting misled by the kinds that aren't healthy or sustainable.
"Wow, wow, wow. Now I totally see why my past relationships didn't work. I really didn't understand what to look for, beyond that initial spark. It's crazy to see how many mistakes I made, but it's just because no one had taught me what I really needed to look for, until now. I am super-grateful." – Kathy, age 62
Module 9:
Create Your Relationship Vision
Design your ideal relationship with crystal clarity about your deal-breakers and must-haves, along with the curiosity and flexibility love requires (it's a both/and!)
"I had relationships for decades without ever having the concept of a 'relationship vision.' I always thought when I met the right woman, we would just work it out. Now I see why that was a recipe for pain. I know myself so much better and feel so much better-equipped to find the right partner for this next stage of my life." – Joan, age 67
Module 10:
Develop Your Dating Plan
Create a dating plan that fits you, based on all of the available online and offline options for meeting women, so you can actually find her.
"Thank you for creating this holistic approach. I'm actually enjoying dating for the first time ever. I no longer feel as if I'm putting my heart or my self-esteem on the line each time I reach out. Instead, I feel curious and even confident. I'm making new friends and even educating other women on the conscious dating process, believe it or not! I haven't met HER yet, but I can feel she's on her way:)" Elizabeth, age 70
Module 11:
Outsmart Your Hardwired Brain Chemistry!
Stay clear and strong, and avoid merging or the lesbian U-haul, even if limerence and "honeymoon feelings" take you over.
"It's amazing how quickly I can think I'm in love. Now I watch that happening in myself but I know how to slow it down and make good choices. I really could have used this info 20 years ago, but I'm so grateful to have it now." -- Nina, age 51
Module 12:
Date, Communicate, Assess and Find Lasting Love
Now that you know what you want and have the skills you need, you can explore new connections with clarity, curiosity and compassion, knowing you're on your way to the love you want.
"I had a few dates with a woman I found really attractive, and in the past I would have gone for it, but this time it was so clear to me we weren't the right fit. I feel incredibly empowered! Now I'm communicating with someone interesting on a dating site and I can feel the difference. It's a mutual connection, rather than that roller-coaster I used to go for. I can’t tell you how much I appreciated your course. You're a heart-saver!" -- Anna, age 45
"I finally feel prepared for the love life I want. I wish I'd gotten this information
20 or 30 years ago, but -- better late than never!" -- Cindy, age 65
Roadmap Participants Say:
"It was quite a process for me to get to the point of believing I deserved healthy love. Now I’ve met a wonderful woman and there’s a lot of compatibility. And there’s a lot of scary stuff in a new relationship, so I’m glad to have the Roadmap to help me navigate it." – Joanne, age 59
"The Roadmap course has been truly life-changing, and you can quote me on that! Helping me move from such a stuck place into hope and optimism was a huge task! Now I've finally had the confidence to create an online dating profile, something I never thought I would do." -- Karen, age 64
The Roadmap Course Comes With Academy Membership.
Because Your Heart is Worth It.
Does this sound like you?
You're smart, thoughtful, and willing to work hard.
You've probably done various kinds of healing, therapy,
12-step work, meditation, or other spiritual work.
Intimate relationships are the final frontier.
Learn how to do them right.
The Conscious Girlfriend Academy exists to support
women who value growth, and are willing to take action
to learn how to be the right partner, as well as find her.
We look forward to welcoming you into our community.
We are actively anti-racist and warmly welcome all self-identified women and AFAB non-binary people
who love women, or want to.
Choose your Roadmap plan below --
and change your paradigm, your possibilities, and your life.
Community Memberships Include:
❤ The Roadmap to Conscious Lesbian Dating & Lasting Love, our 12-module course that has changed lives in 25 countries. Each week for 12 weeks, you'll receive access to a new module in the member portal.
❤ Weekly live Roadmap Connection gatherings. We gather Tuesdays 5:00-6:30 p.m. PT to dive deeply into the material and explore how to embody it in your life. Strong friendships form from these gatherings, too!
❤ Access to all 75+ recorded classes in our archives, covering all aspects of conscious lesbian dating, love and sex. Watch on your own time -- and each week there will be a recommended video for discussion.
Supporting Memberships Include All Of The Above, Plus:
❤ Monthly intimate group coaching sessions with Academy director Ruth Schwartz. Ruth no longer sees
clients one on one, so this is the only way to get her coaching.
❤ Free entry to our Conscious Lesbian Dating Salons. These warm-hearted gatherings are a great way to make friends, feel more connected, and maybe even find that special, conscious woman.
❤ Free entry to other special live classes with guest instructors.
❤ Annual Supporting Members also receive free entry to our Find True Love Online Intensive.
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It's the lesbian way!
If you were part of the community in the 1980s, you probably remember our ethos of inclusion.
At Conscious Girlfriend,
we still honor that.
Donations are gratefully accepted to support our scholarship program.
Scholarships are offered to all motivated women in need.
We aim to make our work accessible to all, in support of a more loving world.
Community Member
$697/year
OR
$99/mo.
Save $491 when you pay
for the year.
Only $58/month!
Benefits
- The 12-Week Roadmap to Conscious Lesbian Dating & Lasting Love Course: Full access to this 12-module course ($597 value)
- Full access to the Academy Archives (over 75 recorded classes available! ($2150 value)
- PDF of the book Conscious Lesbian Dating and Love: A Roadmap to Finding the Right Partner and Creating the Relationship of Your Dreams
- Weekly discussion and practice events (Tuesdays 5:00-6:30 p.m. PST) led by Ruth Schwartz and/or other group leaders ($100 value)
- Membership in the private Academy Facebook group so you can connect with other members worldwide. (Priceless)
Becoming a Community Member saves you hundreds of dollars off a la carte prices, plus gives you the opportunity to learn and integrate more.
Supporting Member
$1097/year
OR
$149/mo.
Save $691 when you pay for
the year.
Only $91/month!
Benefits
Supporting Membership includes ALL of the benefits of Community Membership, PLUS:
1. Monthly 2-hour intimate group coaching call with Academy Director Ruth Schwartz (Priceless)
2. Free admission to Conscious Dating Salons ($25-75 value per month)
3. Free admission to a la carte classes with guest teachers ($25-75 value per month)
4. With yearly membership only: Free admission to Find True Love Online ($597 value)
Becoming a Supporting Member is the only way to access intimate small-group coaching with Academy Director Ruth Schwartz, plus saves you hundreds of dollars on entry fees to other class.
Roadmap Participants Say:
"I’m in a new relationship, and my girlfriend and I have gone through all the Roadmap materials together! I feel conscious, and I’m in a relationship with someone conscious. We are meeting each other, body, mind and spirit. I truly didn’t know I would get to have this. I wish I could go back and tell my younger self about this!"
- Emma, age 53
"I want to express my deep gratitude for your leadership. This course has enriched my life tremendously, and made me feel normal even though I’m single :) I’ve taken it twice now because I tended to give myself away. It has been important for me to get to know myself in this way."
– Rhea, age 60
"I’ve walked around in the past feeling like I was too much for people. Now I feel at home in myself, and at home with my new partner. I have the resources and skills to move forward with her, and to allow her to love me, all the parts of me. I want to tell other women: Don’t compromise! The love you want is possible! But you really do have to be the right partner before you can find her." – Sylvia, age 45
"Thank you for creating this holistic approach. It has really moved, supported and encouraged me. I don’t have words for how deeply grateful I am. There has been an incredible healing in my relationship with myself." - Dori, age 46
"I have turned a corner of such magnitude that I can almost not believe it. I’m more self-aware, able to step back and ask questions like Is it true? What would I feel if I didn’t have that thought? I’m able to be aware of getting stuck in the story, which I have found really sets me free, to let go of it. I’m so much happier as a result. – Kristine, age 48
"I can’t tell you how much I appreciate this course. The other day I used all the skills and had an incredibly healthy conversation with a woman I'm dating! It's early days yet but I can feel a huge difference in myself. " - Anna, age 60
Hear Conscious Girlfriend Academy Director Ruth L. Schwartz, Ph.D., talk about lesbian love.
Learn why lesbian relationships can be the best relationships on the planet -- but also the most painful, if you don't know how to find the right partner, or don't have the right skills. The Academy exists to help you learn how to have the love of your dreams.
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