This retreat was sold out, but we've now had a few cancellations! And we also have plenty of space in our newly-added January 11-15 retreat.
Questions? Email [email protected]
MEMBERS ONLY! IN-PERSON RETREAT WITH
Conscious Girlfriend Academy
Open-Hearted. Growthful. Fun. Friendship-Making.
Welcoming all women-loving-women and adjacent non-binary people.
Tampa Bay Area, Florida
March 8-12, 2026

Scenes From Our Last Retreat
Retreat Details
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Questions? Please contact us, not Dayspring. Thanks!
March 8-12 Retreat Schedule (Work In Progress)
Just as we did last time, we will offer classes and workshops with Academy Director Ruth Schwartz and Outreach Director Jen Solin, along with space for CGA members to share their gifts in exercises, activities and mini-workshops.
We have now scheduled a CGA retreat in January, as well. We envision the January retreat as being a chance for Ruth to deliver core CGA content about dating, communication, attachment, working with triggers, etc., live and in person. And, we envision this March retreat as a chance to do more varied things - e.g. on sensuality, and other topics beyond what is covered in the Roadmap. However, if you would prefer to have core CGA content at this retreat too, please let us know!
Sunday, March 8
4:00 Check in to your accommodations and take in the beautiful landscape. We will designate a CGA section with friendly greeters, tea/coffee & snacks, and a retreat intention-setting space 😎
6:00-7:00 Dinner
7:00-10:00 Ice-breaking exercises, music and dance
Monday, March 9
~Optional early bird hikes, stretching, yoga, meditation, led by CGA members.
8:30-9:30 Breakfast
10:00-11:30 Connection and Conversation Games (Jen)
12:00-2:00 Lunch and after-lunch walk
2:00-4:30 Workshop: Selected Lesbian Dating & Love Topics (Ruth)
4:30-6:00 Walk, kayak, swim, relax
6:00-7:00 Dinner
7:00-10:00 Outdoor bonfire, open mic and storytelling
Tuesday, March 10
~Optional early bird hikes, stretching, yoga, meditation, led by CGA members.
8:30-9:30 Breakfast
10:00-12:30 Outdoor Experience: Mindfulness, Sensuality & Connection (Ruth)
12:30-1:30 Lunch Time
2:30-4:30 Social Prompts & Connection (Jen)
4:30-6:00 Open Time
6:00-7:00 Dinner
7:00-10:00 Bonfire, massage party and dancing
Wednesday, March 11
~Optional early bird hikes, stretching, yoga, meditation, led by CGA members every morning.
8:30-9:30 Breakfast
10:00-12:00 Workshop with Jen
12:30-1:30 Lunch Time
2:00-4:00 Workshop with Ruth
4:00-6:00 Free Time
6:00-7:00 Dinner
7:00-9:00 Closing Ceremony, music and dancing
Thursday, March 12
~Optional early bird hikes, stretching, yoga, meditation, led by CGA members
8:30-9:30 Breakfast
Check out of rooms at 10:00 and say our goodbyes
Note: Many workshops and activities are still in the planning stages and will be co-created with members. We will be creating a google sheet for you to park your ideas and requests.
January 11-15 Retreat Schedule (so you can compare the two)
Learn more about, and sign up for, the January retreat here.
Sunday, January 11
4:00 Check in to your accommodations and take in the beautiful landscape! We'll have a CGA section with friendly greeters, tea/coffee & snacks, and a retreat intention-setting space 😎
6:00-7:00 Dinner
7:00-10:00 Speed-friending, music and dancing
Monday, January 12
8:30-9:30 Breakfast
10:00-12:00 Smart-For-Your-Heart Lesbian Dating Fundamentals
12:00-1:00 Lunch
1:00-2:00 Optional Speed-Friending & Connection Exercises
1:00 or 2:00-3:00 Walk, swim, relax
3:00-4:00 Walk, kayak, relax
4:00-6:00 Dating Conversations & Practice
6:00-7:00 Dinner
7:00-10:00 Bonfire, storytelling and acoustic music
Tuesday, January 13
8:30-9:30 Breakfast
10:00-12:00 Lesbian Communication For Emotional Intimacy
12:00-1:00 Lunch
1:00-2:00 Optional Speed-Friending & Connection Exercises
1:00 or 2:00-3:00 Walk, swim, relax
3:00-4:00 Walk, kayak, relax
4:00-6:00 Heart-Opening Communication Practice
6:00-7:00 Dinner
7:00-10:00 Bonfire, massage party and dancing
Wednesday, January 14
8:30-9:30 Breakfast
10:00-12:00 Transforming Conflict To Connection (Especially For Attachment Triggers!)
12:00-1:00 Lunch Time
1:00-2:00 Optional Speed-Friending & Connection Exercises
1:00 or 2:00-3:00 Walk, swim, relax
3:00-4:00 Walk, kayak, relax
4:00-6:00 Skill-Building: Transforming Conflict To Connection
6:00-7:00 Dinner
7:00-9:00 Closing Ceremony, music and dancing
Thursday, January 15
8:30-9:30 Breakfast
Check out of rooms at 10:00 and say our goodbyes
About Our Venue, Dayspring Retreat in Parrish, FL
ABOUT DAYSPRING RETREAT
Dayspring Retreat is a Christian-based retreat center which is actively welcoming to LGBTQ+ people. We know that the Christian names and symbols may be triggering or simply foreign for some of our members, while being familiar and perhaps comforting to others. We hope that at this moment in time, being in a Christian venue that practices what Christ actually taught -- love -- will offer respite and healing in a troubled world.
This is a sacred spot on the Manatee River, with beautiful walking paths, wetlands, gardens and a labyrinth that invites you to steady your breath, gentle your mind, and open your heart. There are also indoor and outdoor chapels which will be open to us for personal reflection, meditation and healing.
Best airport to fly into: Tampa
Lodging Options & Costs For Dayspring
Prices Listed Are For The Entire Event
(Four Nights Of Lodging, Plus All Meals, Plus All Academy Events)
Unfortunately, we cannot reduce your rate if you need to arrive late or leave early. These rooms are available on a first come, first full pay basis. If you do not see your preferred lodging option at check out, it is most likely because it is sold out. You can email [email protected] with any questions.
Meals included: Day 1: Dinner, Days 2, 3 and 4: Three meals plus afternoon tea/coffee & snacks; Day 5: Breakfast. Most food sensitivities, allergies and preferences can be accommodated.
The Cottages are now sold out.
The Houses (Singles With Private Or Shared Bath & Common Areas)
Two large retreat houses which offer both single private & double semi-private rooms, along with some common space.
We just opened up 3 single rooms in The Houses, so more people can choose this option. Please indicate if you have mobility issues as there is a second floor & one of the houses has a spiral staircase. We are assigning rooms with private baths on a first-come basis, and after they're gone, all single rooms will come with shared baths.
Cost: $1697 per person
The Houses (Doubles With Shared Baths & Common Areas)
Two large retreat houses which offer semi-private rooms (two people per room) and shared baths, along with some common space.
There are 12 more spaces left for people who can choose this option. Please indicate if you have mobility issues, as there is a second floor as there is a second floor & one of the houses has a spiral staircase.
Cost: $1297 per person
Commuter
Stay off-site and join us for all meals and activities.
We highly encourage you to stay on-site if possible, because we'll have activities from early morning til late at night, plus conversation and connection can happen at any time. BUT if you really need to stay elsewhere, we'll still be glad to have you!
There are 8 people who can choose this option.
Cost: $797 per person
Transportation to The Retreat
Dayspring is approximately 45 minutes' drive from Tampa International Airport, and 35-45 from Sarasota Airport.
We will have google docs available to assist you in sharing rides from and to the airport, or carpooling from elsewhere in Florida.
Delicious Food
Dayspring's dining facilities include a salad bar and fresh fruit bar with all meals, and the chefs are extremely responsive to special needs and sensitivities. So, if you're gluten free, sugar free, vegetarian, vegan, nightshade free or on some other special diet, just let us know so they can accommodate you! We will eat well.
WE HOPE YOU WON'T NEED TO CANCEL, BUT...
If you sign up and then cancel by January 24, we can give you a full refund. After that date, we cannot offer refunds. However, you are welcome to transfer or sell your reservation to another CGA member.
Retreat purchase is available for our members ONLY. Want to be there, but not a member yet?
Book a free chat with Jen, above, or click here to join as a member.

Scenes From Previous Retreats







FAQs About Conscious Girlfriend Academy Retreats
Q: What are Conscious Girlfriend Academy's lesbian retreats like?
Conscious Girlfriend Academy is the leading global online community and learning hub for growth-oriented lesbians, queer women and adjacent non-binary people. Our retreats are focused on heart connections and learning. These multi-day events invite you to:
Connect with approximately 60 lesbians and queer women in open-hearted ways
Experience a non-hookup, community-focused environment
Explore workshops and conversations that support personal growth and authentic connection
For some, CGA retreats are their first time in a group of lesbians. It's a safe, welcoming space to step into community. For others, CGA retreats rekindle the joyful spirit of past decades of lesbian gatherings.
Q: What is the setting of this retreat?
Dayspring is a warmly welcoming 97-acre retreat center on the Manatee River, with kayaks, trails, gardens, wetlands, a labyrinth, great food and cozy retreat lodging. It's about 45 minutes from the Tampa International Airport. Temperatures in March should be in the mid-70s to low 80s during the day, and low 60s at night.
Q: Who are Conscious Girlfriend Academy retreats for?
CGA retreats are especially for single lesbians and queer women seeking community and friendship, though couples are warmly welcome, too. Each retreat brings together approximately 50 to 70 attendees.
Most attendees are ages 30s-80s.
Women who are just coming out, are bisexual or are exploring their queer identity are embraced here.
Longtime lesbians looking to reconnect with lesbian culture and community will feel like ducks in water :)
It’s the perfect space if you’ve been longing for meaningful connection without the pressure of a bar or dating scene and if you are a growth-oriented woman-loving-woman who wants to hang out with and/or date people committed to conscious, healthy relationships.
Q: What can I expect to experience at the retreat?
At our Conscious Girlfriend Academy retreats, you can look forward to:
Workshops for self-discovery and personal growth
Morning qi gong, tai chi, yoga, meditation or mindful walks
Community-building circles and conversations, plus an opportunity for members to share some of their own skills and knowledge and mini-workshops to benefit us all
Evening gatherings that foster joy and belonging, including campfires and maybe even s'mores (gluten-free for some of us)
Fantastic meals
Time to relax, reflect, and recharge in warm-hearted company, welcoming to introverts, extroverts and everyone in between
Many participants say the true magic is in the friendships and confidence they take home with them.
Q: I’m just coming out. Will I fit in?
Absolutely! This retreat is crafted for inclusivity and comfort, offering a gentle landing for those:
Newly coming out
Exploring their lesbian or queer identity
Seeking their first connection with lesbian community
You’ll be surrounded by growth-oriented, open-hearted women who will support, uplift, and welcome you exactly as you are.
Q: What makes this lesbian retreat unique?
Unlike a larger event or party-focused weekends, Conscious Girlfriend Academy retreats offer:
A non-intimidating, community-first atmosphere
Workshops and activities that prioritize self-acceptance, learning, and authentic connection
Opportunities to bond with other single lesbians without the pressure of a hookup or dating-focused event
An opportunity to meet in person with your past, present or future classmates in the Conscious Girlfriend Academy, the world's only online school and community devoted to helping lesbians and adjacent queer people live our best lives, date wisely and love well.
Q: Why do you have to be an Academy member in order to attend?
Academy membership creates a culture based on being conscious, compassionate and curious, and this container transfers over to our retreats, making them both richer and more relaxed. When you're at a Conscious Girlfriend event, you can expect genuine warmth, not a frenzied focus on "meeting someone." You will definitely "meet someone" -- lots of someones! That said, all of our retreats yield friendships, and some of those, in the fullness of time, also turn into romantic relationships.
Most Academy members find that the Academy dramatically uplevels their capacity for higher-quality, authentic friendship and relationships. So it's a special perk to be able to spend F2F time with those women you've previously seen in the Zoom squares, and see what blossoms.
Retreat purchase is available for our members ONLY. Want to be there, but not a member yet?
Book a free chat with Jen, above, or click here to join as a member.
Jodine & Nancy ~ Poolside Banter About The Napa Retreat

Comments About Previous CGA Retreats
"Food for the Heart & Soul"
"The weekend at Palm Springs Retreat was healing and exhilarating at the same time. Getting to know these women one on one and being touched by their stories and their strength is almost overwhelming. The feeling of being safe, accepted and loved was abundant. My heart was so very full the entire time.
I am so privileged to be a part of a group of women who are open, honest, trusting and loving. I feel safe with all of them. The faces became living people whom I will call "sisters". The connections at the retreat fed our hearts and souls. Ruth, Nicki and Jen ultimately provided the safe space for us to meet, learn and appreciate each other!"
"The Ripples Of This Experience Are Moving Out Into The World"
"To each and every CGA sister who was there, your energy, openness, and authenticity made this retreat even more powerful. You brought so much love, insight, and beauty into our shared space, and I am forever grateful for you all.
To all my sisters at Conscious Girlfriend Academy, I see you, I cherish you, and I am so honored to walk this path with you. The ripples of this experience are moving out into the world, and I can’t wait to continue this journey together."

"The Portal To The World We Need, Want And Deserve"
"Looking at the retreat photos is like opening a bottle of love and sunshine to see everyone’s faces again and all those moments of joy, authentic connecting and expression in that exceptional natural setting. We all have opened the portal to the world we need, want, deserve and can continue to co-create, and there’s no going back!"
"Breakthroughs, Fun, New Friends, Empowerment, Hope"
"I loved this weekend with every part of me. Breakthroughs in so many areas, plus connection. Fun. New friends. Empowerment. Hope. And a healthy dose of harmless flirting."
"My First Lesbian Retreat"
"It was a magical experience. And very significant for me, as it was the first lesbian retreat I was ever part of. 😍"
And Yet More Pictures...
















With Love From Our Fearless Leaders: Nicki, Jen and Ruth
And oodles of thanks to our retreat photographer Jody Potiker
for this photo and many of the others on this page!
Open-Hearted. Growthful. Fun. Friendship-Making.
Welcoming all women-loving-women and adjacent non-binary people.
Tampa Bay Area, Florida
March 8-12, 2026