Welcome To The Intelligent, Compassionate Learning Community For Lesbians
Who Value Conscious Love!
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Find True Love In 2022
She is out there! Learn the surprising reason you haven't found her yet, and what to do.
Plus, don't miss our new e-book:
Five Heartbreaking Mistakes Lesbians Make,
And What To Do Instead
Find True Love In 2022
Learn Healthy Lesbian Dating
Ready to meet her, or ready to get ready? We've got you covered.
Roadmap To Conscious Lesbian Dating &
Learn how to find and create the relationship of your dreams, while practicing new skills with other Academy members.
Audio, Video, Written
& Live Zoom Meetings
Find True Love Online
Frustrated or intimidated by online dating? Learn why it usually doesn't work, and how to do it right so you can actually find love rather than wasting time and risking your heart.
Warm-hearted gatherings for conscious women over 40 who are open to dating, flirting and/or friendship. Introverts welcome!
Live Zoom Salons
Lesbian Dating Deep Dive
Lesbian dating secrets no one ever told you about chemistry, compatibility, red flags, "friends first," communication and more.
Can't Decide? Get Access To ALL Our Classes!
Supporting Members in the Academy get all our recorded and live classes on dating, love and sex, plus coaching, too!
Surviving & Thriving After A Lesbian Breakup
Breakups can be shattering. It's normal to struggle, but you're not alone, you're not broken, and you can reclaim your life.
Learn To Create Lasting Lesbian Love
Yes, the relationship you want is possible. It just takes learning how.
Communication For Emotional Intimacy
Your heart needs to really be heard -- and so does hers. Here's what will help you make that happen.
Attachment Healing Intensive
End the painful push-pull that leaves couples fighting over closeness or space, and learn to heal this conflict at its root.
How To Find, And Be,
The Right Partner
Learn what it takes to be a real CATCH: a woman capable of a happy, healthy lesbian relationship.
Lesbian Bed Life
Frank, compassionate lesbian sex ed for your body and soul.
The secret to being able to rock each other's worlds in bed is right here, in these empowering sexual communication tools.
Lesbian Bed Life Fundamentals
Want a deeply fulfilling sex life? This 5-video class gives you a comprehensive lesbian erotic education.
Oral Sex & Energy Sex
One of our all-time best sellers, this class is a must-watch whether you're newly out or a lifelong lesbian. Viewers call it liberating and life-changing.
Answers To Common Questions About Academy Membership
How old are most class participants?
Conscious Girlfriend class participants have ranged in age from 21 to 82. Our largest number of participants tend to be in their 50s, 60s and 70s. It is never too late, or too early, for healthy love.
What if I'm not sure I'm ready for a relationship?
It's wise not to date before you're ready. Academy classes can help you see what you need to do to get ready, and make profound shifts toward what you want next in love.
What if I want a non-traditional relationship?
Academy classes will help you clearly define exactly what you want and need in true love, and stand strong in your vision. Whatever that vision is, you will be warmly supported!
How much time will Academy membership take?
You can pace your own experience, since you have access to the archives of past class recordings to watch on your own time. Most members find that weekly Roadmap Connection groups are a great way to go deeper with the material, and also make friends and build community. But if they don't fit your schedule (or even if they do), you can also form a Roadmap buddy group with other members. If you're looking for real transformation, we recommend you allocate at least 3 hours per week to the process. It's the best investment in your happiness you can make.
What if I've never had a relationship with a woman?
If you are a self-identified woman who loves women, or wants to, you are welcome! Classes include lifelong lesbians, women who are just coming out, women who identify as bisexual or pansexual, and non-binary folx comfortable with lesbian culture, too.
What if I want to find true love, but not online?
These days the vast majority of new lesbian couples meet online, so we'd hate to see you rule out that possibility. However, much of the coursework in Find True Love Online will support you even if you're committed to meeting someone offline.
Which Academy membership should I choose?
Annual Supporting Membership offers the best value, since it gives you access to almost every Conscious Girlfriend offering at a deeply discounted price.
Will the Academy work for me? Will I fit in?
We are a warm-hearted and embracing community founded on consciousness and compassion, and our work is based on science, psychology and evidence-based relationship research.
Many members say they've never felt so at home anywhere, and we hope your experience will match theirs! Members are diverse in many ways, but share a love for women and a desire to grow.
Choose your membership plan below --
and change your paradigm, your possibilities, and your life.
Community Memberships Include:
❤ The Roadmap to Conscious Lesbian Dating & Lasting Love, our 12-module course that has changed lives in 25 countries. Each week for 12 weeks, you'll receive access to a new module in the member portal.
❤ Weekly live Roadmap Connection gatherings. We gather Tuesdays 5:00-6:30 p.m. PT to dive deeply into the material and explore how to embody it in your life. Strong friendships form from these gatherings, too!
❤ Access to all 75+ recorded classes in our archives, covering all aspects of conscious lesbian dating, love and sex. Watch on your own time -- and each week there will be a recommended video for discussion.
Supporting Memberships Include All Of The Above, Plus:
❤ Monthly intimate group coaching sessions with Academy director Ruth Schwartz. Ruth no longer sees
clients one on one, so this is the only way to get her coaching.
❤ Free entry to our Conscious Lesbian Dating Salons. These warm-hearted gatherings are a great way to make friends, feel more connected, and maybe even find that special, conscious woman.
❤ Free entry to other special live classes with guest instructors.
❤ Annual Supporting Members also receive free entry to our Find True Love Online Intensive.
Have more? Pay more.
Have less? Pay less.
It's the lesbian way!
If you were part of the community in the 1980s, you probably remember our ethos of inclusion.
At Conscious Girlfriend,
we still honor that.
Donations are gratefully accepted to support our scholarship program.
Scholarships are offered to all motivated women in need.
We aim to make our work accessible to all, in support of a more loving world.
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for the year.
Becoming a Community Member saves you hundreds of dollars, plus gives you the opportunity to learn and integrate more.
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Supporting Membership includes ALL of the benefits of Community Membership, PLUS:
1. Monthly 2-hour intimate group coaching call with Academy Director Ruth Schwartz (Priceless)
2. Free admission to Conscious Dating Salons ($25-75 value per month)
3. Free admission to a la carte classes with guest teachers ($25-75 value per month)
4. With yearly membership only: Free admission to Find True Love Online ($597 value)
Becoming a Supporting Member is the only way to access intimate small-group coaching with Academy Director Ruth Schwartz, plus saves you hundreds of dollars on entry fees to other class.
Get Our Free E-Book:
Five Heartbreaking Mistakes Lesbians Make, And What To Do Instead
Conscious Girlfriend Academy Director Ruth Schwartz says ruefully, "I've made every one of these mistakes, and many more.
Now, let me help you avoid them!'