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Live Retreat August 26-30 in New York

The Intelligent, Compassionate Learning Community For Lesbians++

++ Warmly welcoming all self-identified women and adjacent non-binary people who love women, or want to.

Join Us To Heal Your Lesbian Heart From A Breakup Or Toxic Relationship, Live On June 8 (Or Get The Replay) For Just $19
"This class was worth $1000." -- What a participant said about our last low-cost class, Lesbian Narcissists, Empaths & Unavailable Women, now $25

 JOIN OUR INTRO CLASS FOR ONLY $19!

 

Heal Your Lesbian Heart 

From A Breakup Or Toxic Relationship 

🖤  

Lesbian breakups can be shattering, even if the relationship was brief, painful, or both. Often, we make our own pain even worse because Breakup Healing Hygiene is counterintuitive.  

 

Painful breakups can happen even when the relationship wasn't toxic. But lesbians are especially vulnerable to toxic relationships, which make the healing process far harder.  

 

Empower yourself with the knowledge you need.

 

Join us live on June 8, 11:00-1:00 PST, to learn: 

 

1) The three kinds of breakups that hurt the most, and the keys to Breakup Healing Hygiene that will actually help you feel better, faster.

2) Was (or is) your relationship toxic? How to know.   

3) How your primary attachment state(s) determine your breakup style, and can also help you identify your best path toward healing.  

4) The five reasons why lesbians are vulnerable to getting into, and staying in, a toxic relationship, and how to protect yourself. 

5) Why toxic relationships happen, and the difference between a toxic person and a toxic dynamic. 

6) Can you get her back, and should you try? How to know. 

7) Did she break up with you after a time of increased closeness, like a vacation or talk about living together? Why this happens.   

8) Did she get into a new relationship right away? Why people do this, and how to deal with the pain.

9) Did she pursue you and seem "all in," but then say she wasn't ready for a relationship, and just wants to be friends? Why this happens.

10) Did she push you away and then want you back, then push you away again when you started to trust, then want you back again when you let go? What you need to know about this pattern.   

 

toxic lesbian relationship recovery intensive

A Transformational Six-Week Course

Thursday, June 20, 27, July 11, 18, 25 and August 1

4:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Pacific Time

(Class 4:00-6:00, Deep Dive 6:00-7:00)

Get Healthy, Lasting Connection

And The Space You Need

Learn To Find The Right Partner

And Learn To BE The Right Partner, Too

No More Unavailable Women :)

With The Love Of Your Life

Love You Can Trust

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toxic lesbian relationship recovery intensive

 

A Transformational Live-On-Zoom 6-Part Class 

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Get the course + Deep Dive access for $499

6-Week Access To The Course + Deep Dive - $499

Free For Members or

$349 A La Carte

Sign Up A La Carte For $349

Membership Includes:

🖤  Weekly Dating, Love & Connection Skills Labs led by Conscious Girlfriend Coaches. You'll get four live skill practice labs during the month!

🖤  Watch over 40 on-demand video classes in the world's biggest resource library on lesbian love. 

Learn how to go from this...

To THis.

Your Heart Deserves This class.

    But What If You Need More Than Just One Month Of Help?      

Annual Basic Membership Includes:

  • Live 4-Week Classes At Least Nine Times Per Year.  Value: $1791 year 

    May 2024 

    Lesbian Dating & Love Over 60

    Lesbian Attachment Healing

    June-August 2024 

    Heal From Lesbian Heartbreak

    Highway Out Of Hell: Recovering From Toxic Lesbian Relationships 

    September-December 2024  

    Lesbian Dating Savvy: Get Ready To Find Her 

    Lesbian Dating Empowerment: Know If She's Right For You

    Lesbian Online Dating and Lesbian Long-Distance Relationships 

    Lesbian Communication For Emotional Intimacy (Stop The Fights!)

    January-April 2025  

    Open-Hearted Boundaries & Skillful Requests

    Lesbian Bedroom Communication 

    No More Narcissists or Unavailable Women! Rewriting Your Relationship Scripts 

  • 12 Months Of Weekly Coach-Led Dating, Love & Connection Skills Labs. Value: $2487/year

    Meet every Tuesday night, rain or shine, with a skillful coach and a like-minded group of lesbians++ determined to crack the code of healthy dating and love. Together, we practice the skills for making connection, knowing who's right for you, getting what you need, and healing conflicts. 

  • Over 40 On-Demand Videos In The World's Biggest Lesbian Love Resource Library.  Value: $1899 year 

    Dive into our archives for a lesbian love education available nowhere else in the world! 

   TOTAL VALUE: $6177  

Yes, I Want A Whole Year Of Basic Membership For $997

           But If You're Really Serious About Your Love Life...  

 Deep-Dive Membership Includes:

 12 Months Of Basic Membership, PLUS

Group Coaching For 90 Minutes After Every Live Class 

(That's 36 Group Coaching Sessions Per Year)

 

    TOTAL VALUE: $11,577   

Make My Membership A Deep Dive For $1997

           But Who Needs Classes On Being A Girlfriend?

Know anyone who's gotten divorced lately?

The Conscious Girlfriend Academy could save you huge amounts of money, 

as well as years lost to fighting, pain and heartache.

 

Ever pay big weekly therapy bills?   

Members describe Conscious Girlfriend Academy as "therapy on steroids" -- 

or preventive medicine and rehab for your lesbian heart and soul :)

 

Ever feel like you're lonely, tired of being single, but don't know how to date?

Or like a past relationship shattered you and you know you need to learn to do it differently?

Many lesbians++ say Conscious Girlfriend Academy has given them a path to healthy dating and love. 

 

Lesbian relationships are beautiful, powerful, complex, and challenging.

We need and deserve resources and community to help us honor our deepest longings. 

     Wait, What Were Those Options Again?    

Basic Membership

 

 All Our Live Classes For A Year 

+ 

40+ On-Demand Classes

In The World's Biggest

Lesbian Love Resource Library

+

Weekly Live Coach-Led

Skill-Building Sessions

 

   TOTAL VALUE: $6177  

Yes, I Want A Year Of Basic Membership For Just $997

Deep-Dive Membership

 

 All Our Live Classes For A Year 

+

80+ On-Demand Classes

In The World's Biggest

Lesbian Love Resource Library 

+

Weekly Live Coach-Led 

Skill-Building Sessions

+

36 Live Group Coaching Sessions

With The Director

 

    TOTAL VALUE: $11,577   

Make My Membership A Deep Dive For $1997

     We Exist To Support Lesbian & Queer Love    

Our Love Is Beautiful

 

Lesbians and queer women are courageous and powerful,

and relationships between women

can be the very best relationships on the planet.

You deserve happy, healthy love—and you can have it!

 

But because two women can bond so deeply and quickly,

our relationships can also go bad fast --

if you don't choose a partner wisely,

or don't have the skills to work through conflicts. 

 

The Conscious Girlfriend Academy exists to help you learn how

to find the right partner -- and be the right partner, too.

If you are growth-oriented and motivated to learn,

we'll see you in class! 

Yes, I Want A Year Of Basic Membership For $999!
Make My Membership A Deep Dive For $1997

Meet Some Of Our Members 

 

 

Meet Shirley, Who Changed Her Life

With The Help Of The Conscious Girlfriend Academy

 

"I've only been a member of Conscious Girlfriend Academy for four months now, and I've found my home.

 

"When I came to the Academy, I was in a deep, dark depression... but after meeting everyone here, I truly, truly came alive again, because I started accepting myself. 

 

"I had a 20-year relationship with a woman, but I felt like I had not been very good to her. So I was taking all the blame on myself, instead of trying to see it for what it was... In the classes, you do so much introspection, you learn who you are, you find out what you want... and what you don't want. So I am absolutely hooked on Conscious Girlfriend.

 

"Anyone who's on the line, who can't decide,

just call me! And I'll help you decide."

                 How Much Does It Cost?                

Choose Class + Deep Dive Access for $499

or get only the À la carte class for only $349.

TOXIC LESBIAN RELATIONSHIP RECOVERY

JUNE 20, 27, JULY 11, 18, 25 & AUGUST 1

4:00-7:00 p.m. Pacific Time

6-Week Class, Recordings Included

Our Time Is Now

Our Time Is Now

Our Time Is Now

Our Time Is Now

Our Time Is Now

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A La Carte 6-Week Class - $349
One Class + Deep Dive - $499

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Lesbian breakup Healing Course

6-Week Intensive Class

Saturdays, June 15, 22, 29, July 6, 13, and 20 

11:00 a.m.-2:00 p.m. Pacific Time

In-Depth Help With:

  • Getting over her, especially when you had an amazing connection and chemistry, and thought you'd be together forever.
  • Making your own unique healing map, whether your breakup happened yesterday or years ago.
  • Why time doesn't heal all wounds -- and what actually does.
  • Overcoming the biggest mind traps in the healing process.
  • Should you be friends? Can you get her back? Could you make it work in the future? Or, how can you finally move on?
  • How to get yourself back, along with a whole new level of joy, meaning and wholeness. 🖤  

 

Get BOTH 6-Week Classes + Deep Dive Access For Just $899

    Save $100 and get more benefits, too! 

 

WANT PERSONALIZED GUIDANCE? 

Start With A 30-Minute Strategy Session For Just $49. 

Get a half hour on the phone with an Academy staff member to learn how we can help your dating and love journey.  

Get Your Strategy Session

 

What's Really Keeping You From Love?

See If You Have One Or More Of These Common Blocks

👁️‍🗨️ Does an ex still take up too much space in your heart or life? Whether you have no contact but still feel angry or miss her, or you still spend time together, you wonder, "Can I ever really get over her and move on?"   

 

👁️‍🗨️ Do you find yourself replaying scenes from your last relationship in your head, and question, "Could it actually be different next time?  

 

👁️‍🗨️ Part of you thinks, "Maybe I'm just not worthy. Am I really lovable the way I am?" 

 

 

👁️‍🗨️ You don't want to gamble with your heart at this stage. You don't have the stamina for drama. But deep down, you ask yourself, "Am I actually capable of a healthy relationship?"   

 

👁️‍🗨️ You've had relationships feel amazing and magical at first, only to fall apart later. You wonder, "Am I just attracted to the wrong people? Are all the good ones gone?"

 

👁️‍🗨️ Sometimes you think, "Maybe relationships are just too hard. Am I better off alone? Should I risk disrupting my single life? Is love even worth it?" 

Got blocks? We can help! 

We highly recommend you go for the Deep Dive.  

Sign Up For Deep-Dive Annual Membership Here $1997

Your Heart Is Worth It.

And If Not Now, When? 

Click Here For A 30-Minute Strategy Session For Just $49

The crucial info you need so you can break the bad relationship cycle forever, and find lasting love.

Relationships between women can be the best relationships on the planet. But they often end in heartbreak instead. Learn why many lesbian relationships don't last, and exactly how you can find the right partner and keep your love strong.

 

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