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A Free Introduction To

Lesbian Dating

Boot Camp

 

The live 12-Week Boot Camp Training started September 21, but you can still join us! Replays are available.

Here are a few of the many

lesbian dating and relationship facts

this replay will help you understand.

  • Why a relationship that starts out full of magic, chemistry and connection can still go so wrong, and the hidden factors you may not have been tracking that could turn everything around.
  • Five reasons why lesbian dating is very different from straight dating, and what to do about it.
  • Do you suffer from "lesbian sheep syndrome?" Learn what it is and why it disempowers you. 
  • Why lesbian relationships can be the best relationships on the planet, but only when you know how to do the things we talk about here (which are not intuitive, and which our biology actually works against).
  • How an experiential training program that is lesbian-centric, attachment-informed and neuroscience-based can empower you and change your love life for good. 

Lesbian Dating Is Hard...

Can You Relate?

 

  • You'd rather stay single than be in a bad relationship, but you miss the sweetness of a good relationship, and wonder sometimes if you'll have to spend the rest of your life alone.  

  • You've done a lot of personal growth work, and it's hard to find women who can match you.   

  • Your past relationships started without really "dating." How do lesbians date, anyway?   

  • You don't feel comfortable or safe with online dating, or you've tried and it didn't work for you. You'd rather meet someone organically, but how?    

  • You're seeking intellectual, emotional, spiritual and physical connection, and it feels like looking for a needle in a lesbian haystack. 

  • Sometimes you wonder if you can trust your "picker" -- are you attracted to the wrong women?      

  • You're committed to not repeating bad patterns, but you're not completely sure how to break them.     

  • You tend to wait to be chosen rather than doing the choosing.     

  • You're not as young as you used to be, and you wonder if it's too late for you.  Is there even anyone out there for you? 

  • You've got a good life, and part of you thinks you should just be content. But your heart won't let you give up.     

"The Conscious Girlfriend Academy

made our relationship possible."

There Is A Solution.  

 

Meet Pierce & Laura 

 

Pierce says, "I had never thought I would do online dating, but the Conscious Girlfriend Academy gave me the courage.  And it worked!  Laura and I met through the profile I wrote in class. 

 

"The first time we met face to face, we talked about relationship vision in depth [as the Academy had taught me.] Although we had chemistry, we didn't do anything romantic that time. [I had learned that, too!] 

 

"We both knew we wanted a conscious relationship. So over the next few months, she took the Academy Attachment Healing Class, while I took other classes, and we shared what we were learning.

 

"One of the classes that had a big impact on me was the class available to Academy Members on Creating A Relationship As Unique As You Are. 

 

"I had thought the words 'relationship' and 'ease' were oxymorons. The Academy helped me open to the idea that I could have a relationship with ease, and we do."

 

 

       If you want what they're having...  

       You Need The Conscious Girlfriend Academy's Lesbian Dating Boot Camp!

 

  • Yes, We Cover The Nuts And Bolts Of Online Dating.

     

    Over 80% of new lesbian couples meet online. The Boot Camp teaches you how to use the dating sites effectively... how to spot scammers and stay safe... and how to write a profile that draws your Ms. Right, fast.  

  • But The Boot Camp Works For Offline Dating, Too. 

     

    Writing a truly authentic and inviting dating site profile is a life-changing exercise, whether or not you ever put it up online. Several of our members drafted their profiles, shared them with friends... and then fell in love!

  • Get Powerful Mentorship And Group Support.  

     

    Lesbians are love warriors. We also tend to make the same mistakes over and over again. For instance, we're famous for going too fast and either bonding with lesbian super-glue to the wrong person, or actually sabotaging a promising relationship. In Boot Camp, you'll learn the pacing that gives your new connection the best chance for success, while also helping you keep your heart safe. 

  • Get Effective Preparation For Lasting Love. 

     

    The myth says that when you meet the right person, it'll magically work out. That myth causes a lot of pain -- because the fact is, even relationships with great potential often fall apart due to attachment wounds. The Boot Camp will teach you how to heal the root of this pain.    

  • Empower Yourself With The Real Scoop On Compatibility.  

     

    "Chemistry and connection." "That special spark." That's what most of us go for, but sometimes the spark turns into a forest fire. Stop setting yourself up for heartbreak when you ignore crucial aspects of compatibility. The Academy teaches unique ways to assess for long-term fit.        

  • Take Charge Of Your Relationship Destiny!  

     

    Late bloomer? Single for a long time? Over 60? Many of our members are. Your love life isn't up to luck, chance or fate -- it's about the choices and decisions you make. The Academy and Boot Camp will guide your heart and your brain to work together toward the love you want.

     

Why Lesbian Dating Boot Camp? 

 

Lesbians are bold, courageous and beautiful. And we are highly motivated to love and be loved. Our  relationships can be the best relationships on the planet, but we also face unique challenges.

 

The skills involved in smart-for-your-heart

lesbian dating are not intuitive.

 

Many lesbians of all ages say they've never asked another woman out. Instead, they always wait to be asked. There are some obvious problems with this approach :)

 

Imagine feeling confident enough to:

 

🖤  Express interest in someone else, knowing you'll feel whole even if she doesn't feel the same way. 

 

🖤  Stay connected to yourself even while interacting with someone you really like. 

 

🖤  Know who you are, what you want and what you have to offer in a relationship, and feel worthy and deserving.

 

🖤  Handle your own dating red flags, and hers, with wisdom, compassion and discernment.

 

🖤  Speak skillfully when things are tough.

 

🖤  Trust yourself to stay grounded and safe, even when you open your heart.

 

These are crucial muscles to build!

 

A world full of homophobia, trauma and misogyny hasn't exactly prepared us to give and receive the love we want.  

 

Plus, we've all got attachment pain and triggers that surface when we form deep bonds. 

 

We all have defenses, fears, blocks, places where we close down too hard and fast, or patterns of trying too hard and staying too long.   

 

After all, who among us ever got schooled in healthy lesbian relationship skills, or had great role models?

 

The Lesbian Dating Boot Camp is an intensive, immersive program

designed to build your real-world skills in dating and love.

 

Love is always there. Nothing can keep us from it, if we dare to seek it, and then treasure what we find. 

-- bell hooks

Sounds good, right?

 

But if you've ever struggled in an intimate relationship (and who hasn't), you might be wondering: How do I actually harvest the healing potential of love? How can I stop re-traumatizing myself or others, and actually find love that nourishes and sustains me?   

        

One part of the answer is: It takes a village. In the Conscious Girlfriend Academy Lesbian Dating Boot Camp, you'll be supported by a whole community of like-minded, growth-oriented lesbians and queer women who cheer you on, keep you motivated, and hold you accountable to your own highest vision and well-being.  

 

Deep Dive: Get Boot Camp FREE Along With Powerful Group Coaching
Great Deal: Get Boot Camp FREE With Yearly Membership
A La Carte: 12 Weeks Of Lesbian Dating Boot Camp

       The Boot Camp Details 

 

  • The Lesbian Dating Boot Camp will work for you if you put in the work.   

    That's why we offer a money-back guarantee. Come to the sessions, do the worksheets, finish the program, and then take 30 days to see if you got what you came for. If not, send us your finished worksheets and notes, and we'll refund your money.   

  • Boot Camp is free for Academy members, or available a la carte.    

    For the best value and most support, we encourage you to join our annual membership.  

    • You don't need to be ready for a relationship, or even sure you want one.  

      If you've been scarred by love in the past, the Boot Camp helps you understand why, and help you heal. Whether or not you want intimate partnership, the Boot Camp will transform all of your relationships, including your 24/7 relationship with yourself.    

    • Wise lesbian dating is a learnable skill.  

      The Boot Camp offers inspiring live classes and transformational homework, plus a loving community that can hold you accountable and support you to move toward the love life you truly want. It's not up to luck, chance or fate -- it's about the choices and decisions you make! 

       

    • Boot Camp gets you where you want to go. 

      Lasting lesbian love requires skill, capacity, readiness and real compatibility. It's not rocket science, but is is neuroscience. Emerge from Boot Camp more savvy, discerning and confident about lesbian dating, or get your money back.

      Lesbian Dating Bootcamp

      Sign-Up Options

        

       

      Great Deal: Get Boot Camp FREE With Yearly Membership

      Annual Conscious Girlfriend Academy members get more support and transformation! Membership is $997/year (payment plans available) and includes 9+ months of live classes including 12-Week Lesbian Dating Boot Camp 9/21-24-12/14-24, 12-Week Lesbian Love Boot Camp January-April 2025, classes on Coming Out, Attachment Healing, Lesbian Sacred Sexuality & More! You'll also get weekly live coach-led skill-building sessions all year round, and access to the biggest on-demand lesbian love education library on the planet. >Full info here.

      Deep Dive: Get Boot Camp FREE Along With Powerful Group Coaching

      Get everything our basic Academy members get (above), plus get 36—yes, 36!—group coaching sessions with Conscious Girlfriend Academy Director Ruth Schwartz, author of Conscious Lesbian Dating & Love. At $1997, Deep Dive membership is the only way to get coaching help from Ruth. > Full info here 

      A La Carte: 12 Weeks Of Lesbian Dating Boot Camp

      At $697, this 12-Week Boot Camp is literally guaranteed to change your life. That's right! If you do your part -- show up for the classes live or watch/listen later, take notes, and complete the worksheets -- and don't feel vastly better prepared for lesbian dating than ever before, we'll refund your tuition.   

      NOT SURE WHICH OPTION TO CHOOSE? 

      Start With A 30-Minute Strategy Session For Just $49. 

      Get a half hour of personalized help from our Outreach Director, Jen Solin, to learn more about how the Conscious Girlfriend Academy can support your lesbian heart.

      Get Your Strategy Session

      About Your Boot Camp Leader

      and Academy Director

      Ruth L. Schwartz, Ph.D.

      • Author of eight books, including the Amazon bestseller Conscious Lesbian Dating & Love: A Roadmap To Finding the Right Partner & Creating the Relationship of Your Dreams
      • Certified Somatica Method Sex & Intimacy Coach 
      • Trained with Gay & Katie Hendricks, authors of Conscious Loving
      • Taught at Ashland University, Mills College and many other colleges and universities 
      • A proud member of the LGBTQ community since 1982
      • Transparent, compassionate and committed to walking her talk

      Questions? We're Here To Support You!   

      Email Us At [email protected]

      "This time, I choose to love with my full intelligence."  

      -- Adrienne Rich

      Members Say 

      Tiggy: I’m really grateful because Conscious Girlfriend came to me at a really low time… Becoming part of the group, I felt like I had community that was quality, working toward things I’m working toward, like becoming a conscious being, being the best person I can be for me, and showing up in relationships. It’s been really amazing, being part of a community I can grow in, and who are growing around me.

      Michelle: I am a late in life, or at least coming out, lesbian. I was married to a man for 23 years, and that marriage resulted in three beautiful children… However, when that marriage ended in 2017, I came out, and I’ve been dating women since. And my current partner, I’ve been dating since October… and things are going very well. I attribute much of that to the skills I’ve learned through the Conscious Girlfriend Academy.

      Jen: When I came into the Academy, I was such a wreck. I had ended a relationship a year earlier, and when I saw what this was about, I said, That’s a place I can go and heal… and get myself sorted, and stop repeating these patterns of getting in U-Hauls, and ending up in train wrecks. And when I started, I was amazed, I was like oh my God, where was this 30 years ago when I came out?! How different my life would have been! 

      Shirley: I’ve been a member of Conscious Girlfriend… four months now, and I’ve found my home. I was in a really deep dark depression, but after meeting everyone in the Elders Group, I truly came alive again… Then I became a Supporting [now Deep Dive] Member… you do so much introspection, you learn who you are, you accept what you want and what you don’t want, and I am absolutely hooked on Conscious Girlfriend. 

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      Your Heart Is Worth It.

      And If Not Now, When? 

      Great Deal: Get Boot Camp FREE With Yearly Membership
      Deep Dive: Get Boot Camp FREE Along With Powerful Group Coaching
      A La Carte: 12 Weeks Of Lesbian Dating Boot Camp
      Not Sure Which Option Is Right For You? Get A 30-Minute Strategy Session For Just $49

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      Relationships between women can be the best relationships on the planet. But they often end in heartbreak instead. Learn why many lesbian relationships don't last, and exactly how you can find the right partner and keep your love strong.

       

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