Here's What We've Learned About 

Lesbian Dating & Love Over 60

    Life's not over 'til it's over.    

In fact, when you're no longer in denial 

about mortality, it's even more precious. 

Lesbians 60+ are better-prepared to give and receive love than we've ever been. Here's why:

✔  You know yourself better. 

✔  You're less ruled by hormones.   

✔ You've gained a lot of wisdom and resilience. 

✔ Whether you came out long ago or found your way to your true self recently, being a lesbian has made you courageous.   

✔  At this point in your life, you know what matters most to you.    

✔  You've probably learned the hard way that love and chemistry aren't enough, and you're willing to learn and practice the skills it takes to choose the right person and create a beautiful relationship. 

You have so much to offer.

Your time is now. 

Meet Two More Women Over 60 Who Found Love 

With The Help Of The Conscious Girlfriend Academy

Pierce found community in the Academy first, then learned to find love.      

After making a lot of friends in the Academy and building her courage, Pierce took our online dating course and then put the class into action -- something she had never thought she would do. Within just a few months, she met a wonderful woman, and they've been together several years now. Pierce says, "What I learned in Conscious Girlfriend... is what has made us able to have this happy relationship." 

As a late bloomer, Michelle came to the Academy to learn how to date women. It worked!    

"I am a late in life lesbian, or at least late in coming out. I was married to a man for 23 years, and that marriage resulted in three beautiful children whom I adore. And I don't regret any of that. But when that marriage ended, I started dating women. My current partner...I a little over a year ago, and things are going very well. And I attribute much of that to the skills I've learned in the Conscious Girlfriend Academy."   

Who And What Is The

Conscious Girlfriend Academy? 

If you haven't heard of us yet, you're in for a treat!

Academy Director Ruth Schwartz wrote the book Conscious Lesbian Dating & Love in 2015, and it soon became an Amazon bestseller. Women from all over the world started contacting her, so in 2020, she founded the Academy. 

Based in the U.S. but with participants from many countries, the Academy bring together growth-oriented lesbians (including women coming out later in life) to gain the knowledge and skills we need... for the love we want.

From the beginning, many Academy participants have been over 60. Now Ruth, who is 62 herself, says, "I've taken everything I've learned to create a new course to address the unique needs of senior lesbians, including widows, women who are just coming out, and women who've had their hearts broken in the past and wonder if love is even possible for them."

Do You Relate To Any Of These Questions?  

✔  "Do I even still have a sex drive? Does everything still work? What if it doesn't? Is it possible to have a relationship with just cuddling, not sex?"

✔  "Will someone still be attracted to me with the way my body and face look now?" 

✔  "What if I meet someone much more active than I am, and I can't keep up?" (Or: "What if I can't find other women my age who are as active as I am?")

✔  "Is it fair to date when I've got some major health issues? Can I really ask someone to deal with that?"

✔  "What if I meet someone who has a serious illness?"

✔  "How would a relationship work with someone who has less money than me? Or what if she has more money?"

✔  "I'm settled where I am, and my family is nearby. But there aren't many lesbians near me."  

✔  "I've come to enjoy living alone. Is it possible to have a relationship without living together?"     

✔  "I'm not attracted to women older than me, but I'd feel insecure if I were with someone younger." 

✔  "Where and how would I even meet the right person? I don't have a clue..." 

Without support, these questions can feel overwhelming.

With the right support, they're completely manageable.

That's why we say: Your time is now. 

How Will The Lesbian Dating & Love Over 60 Class Work?

Here's What We Offer:   

A La Carte:

✔  The four-week Lesbian Dating & Love Over 60 class will give you eight hours of transformational learning and small-group discussion. Of course, you'll get the recordings, too. 

This 4-week class meets May 3, 10, 17 and 24, 1:00-3:00 p.m. PST. 

With Monthly or Yearly Basic Membership:

✔  The weekly coach-led Skills Lab will give you a chance to meet like-minded women, and actually practice the tools for healthy dating, making wise choices, and communicating well. These sessions are not recorded.

The coach-led Skills Labs meet every Tuesday, all year round, from 5:00-6:30 p.m. PST.    

With Deep-Dive Membership:

✔ The weekly group coaching sessions following each class will give you a chance to get laser-coaching from Academy Director Ruth Schwartz -- and witness others getting coached, which many people say is just as valuable. 

The Group Coaching sessions happen after each class, from 3:00-4:30 p.m. PST.

With Membership, You'll Also Get:

✔ Access to the world's biggest resource library of on-demand classes on almost any lesbian dating, love or sexuality topic you can think of -- over 40 videos for Basic Members and over 80 videos for Deep Dive Members!  

If you want to open your life to love,*

this is how. 

*By the way, when we say "love," we don't mean the chaos, drama and hurt many of us have lived through in the past. We mean healthy, lasting relationships.