• Become A Member
  • Find True Love
    • Free Class
    • Intensive: Find True Love Online
  • Coaching
  • Coach Training
  • Roadmap To Lesbian Dating & Love
  • Attachment Healing
  • Sex & Gender
  • Just Coming Out?
  • Schedule
  • Classes
    • Upcoming Classes
    • Free & Paid Recorded Classes
  • About
    • Testimonials
    • Director
    • Faculty
    • Book
    • Press
  • Free
    • Upcoming
    • Free & Paid Recorded Classes
    • Community Offerings
  • Contact
  • Member Login
  • Join Our Mailing List

The Intelligent, Compassionate Learning Community

For Lesbians++ Who Value Conscious Love

We warmly welcome all self-identified women and adjacent non-binary people who love women, or want to. 

 

S C H E D U L E   O F   E V E N T S

Join Us For A Class Or Program Soon! 

  • Ready for healthy, happy lesbian or queer love, ready to get ready, or just seeking like-minded friends and community? We'd love to have you join us in the Academy! Many of our events are members-only. We offer affordable monthly memberships and deeply discounted annual options, as well as scholarships where needed.  

     

    Want to try us out first? Email us to request a one-time free visitor's pass to a Tuesday night Roadmap Connection Group or Ask A Coach events. 

  • We have a la carte events, too, including free classes, Conscious Lesbian Dating Salons, our intensive Find True Love Online, and other special events. Check them out below!  

Learn About Academy Membership Here

Conscious Girlfriend Academy Faculty Includes:

Ruth L. Schwartz, Ph.D.

Ruth is the founder and Director of the Conscious Girlfriend Academy and the co-author of the best selling lesbian dating/relationship book on Amazon, along with seven other books. She is rigorous, compassionate and vulnerable.   

 

>>>>>More About Ruth 

Michel Grey

Michel (they/them) is a longtime coach, a Black, queer, trans child of immigrant parents, and a powerful ally in helping every part of you be expressed and accepted. They have completed the Conscious Girlfriend coach training and are a certified Conscious Girlfriend Coach.

 

>>More About Michel  

Nicki Monahan, M. Ed.

Nicki is an ICF-certified coach who believes that personal transformation fuels social change. A deeply dedicated, warm-hearted champion of all segments of the LGBTQ community, she has completed the Conscious Girlfriend coach training and is a certified Conscious Girlfriend Coach. 

 

>>More About Nicki

 

-- U P C O M I N G   E V E N T S -- 

  • 20

    MAR

    Free* Heart-Centered Circle Sharing & Conversation

    Monday, March 20, 4:00 p.m.-6:00 p.m. PT

     

    Free heart-centered circle sharing and conversation *exclusively for participants in the Lesbian++ Erotic Liberation class. This opportunity for vulnerability, authenticity and truth-telling is being held in honor of ourselves, our ancestors, and our sacred queer potential. Facilitated by Conscious Girlfriend Academy faculty member Kai Wu. To participate in these circles, sign up below.

    Free to all Academy & LEL participants. Learn more and sign up here.
  • 21

    MAR

    ROADMAP Connection Group: Navigating Differences in Love

    Tuesday, March 21, 5:00-6:30 p.m. PT

     

    Discussion: Complexities of Compatibility: Navigating Differences in Relationships. Could you be compatible with a partner who was significantly older or younger? Or a different race? More or less "out" than you? With different health or financial status? Why or why not? CLDL Chapter 11.

     

    Free to Academy members only.

    Get your one-time visitor pass here!
  • 24

    MAR

    Lesbian Erotic Liberation -

    Class #4 (Exploring)

    Friday, March 24, 4:00 p.m.-7:00 p.m. PT

     

    Join us for this first-ever offering on Lesbian Erotic Liberation! Whether you're newly coming out or a longtime lover of women, this six-session online class and optional in-person retreat will open new worlds of erotic possibility, pleasure and confidence.

    Free to all Academy members. Learn More Here.
  • 25

    MAR

    12-Week Live Roadmap: 

    Module 9 - Create Your Relationship Vision

    Saturday, March 25, 10:00 a.m.-12:00 p.m. PT

     

    Design your ideal relationship with crystal clarity about your deal-breakers and must-haves, along with the curiosity and flexibility love requires (it's a both/and!)

    Free to Academy Members. More Info Here.
  • 27

    MAR

    Free* Heart-Centered Circle Sharing & Conversation

    Monday, March 27, 4:00 p.m.-6:00 p.m. PT

     

    Free heart-centered circle sharing and conversation *exclusively for participants in the Lesbian++ Erotic Liberation class. This opportunity for vulnerability, authenticity and truth-telling is being held in honor of ourselves, our ancestors, and our sacred queer potential. Facilitated by Conscious Girlfriend Academy faculty member Kai Wu. To participate in these circles, sign up below.

    Free to all Academy & LEL participants. Learn more and sign up here.
  • 28

    MAR

    ROADMAP Connection Group: Your Dating Plan

    Tuesday, March 28, 5:00-6:30 p.m. PT

     

    Discussion: Develop Your Dating Plan. Now that you're prepared to date wisely, and understand the relationship you're seeking, how will you go about meeting women (or whoever you wish to meet)? Overview of online and offline dating considerations.  CLDL Chapter 12.

     

    Free to Academy members only.

    Get your one-time visitor pass here!
  • 30

    MAR

    Intimate Small-Group Coaching 

    Thursday, March 30, 2:00-4:00 p.m. PT 

     

    Receive laser-coaching from Academy Director Ruth Schwartz to help you apply the Conscious Girlfriend principles in your life. Ruth no longer sees clients 1:1, so this is your chance to work with her.  

     

    FREE to all Supporting Academy Members.

    Learn About Academy Membership here!
  • 31

    MAR

    Lesbian Erotic Liberation -

    Class #5 (Communication)

    Friday, March 31, 4:00 p.m.-7:00 p.m. PT

     

    Join us for this first-ever offering on Lesbian Erotic Liberation! Whether you're newly coming out or a longtime lover of women, this six-session online class and optional in-person retreat will open new worlds of erotic possibility, pleasure and confidence.

    Free to all Academy members. Learn More Here.
  • 01

    APR

    12-Week Live Roadmap: 

    Module 10 - Develop Your Dating Plan

    Saturday, April 1, 10:00 a.m.-12:00 p.m. PT

     

    Create a dating plan that fits you, based on all the available online and offline options for meeting women, so you can actually find her. 

    Free to Academy Members. More Info Here.
  • 03

    APR

    Free* Heart-Centered Circle Sharing & Conversation

    Monday, April 3, 4:00 p.m.-6:00 p.m. PT

     

    Free heart-centered circle sharing and conversation *exclusively for participants in the Lesbian++ Erotic Liberation class. This opportunity for vulnerability, authenticity and truth-telling is being held in honor of ourselves, our ancestors, and our sacred queer potential. Facilitated by Conscious Girlfriend Academy faculty member Kai Wu. To participate in these circles, sign up below.

    Free to all Academy & LEL participants. Learn more and sign up here.
  • 04

    APR

    ROADMAP Connection Group: Warning Signs

    Tuesday, April 4, 5:00-6:30 p.m. PT

     

    Discussion: Understanding Red Flags. When does a seemingly red flag turn yellow, or even green?  What do you do if there is chemistry, and there are red flags? What are green flags, and how do you know they're really green? CLDL Chapter 13.

     

    Free to Academy members only.

    Get your one-time visitor pass here!
  • 07

    APR

    Lesbian Erotic Liberation -

    Class #6 (Liberation!)